Amathiphu angu-7 Awusizo Okuxhumana Kwabaculi

Umbhali, i-Creative Commons, 

Inethiwekhi. Kwabanye, lokhu kuwumsebenzi ojabulisayo novuselelayo. Kwabaningi, lokhu kunzima, kudla isikhathi, kuyakhathaza, futhi akukhiqizi kakhulu ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ungasisebenzisa kanjani ngokugcwele isikhathi sakho ku-inthanethi, udale ukuxhumana okunezithelo, futhi udale amathuba amasha omsebenzi wakho wobuciko?

Siqoqe amathiphu ayisikhombisa angcono kakhulu okuxhumana avela kochwepheshe bebhizinisi lobuciko ukuze sikusize uthole okuningi emizamweni yakho yokuxhumana:

1. Zisize ngokusiza abanye 

Bheka inethiwekhi kusuka kumbono "wokukhokha phambili". Dala ubudlelwano obusekelwe ekusebenzelaneni okuhle nokuthakaselayo. Lapho-ke abantu bazozimisela kakhulu ukukusiza ukuthi ufeze izinhloso zakho zomsebenzi wobuciko.

"Ngokukusiza ngiyazisiza." -

2. Hlangana nabanye abaculi futhi unikeze ukwesekwa 

Ngokusekelwe ephuzwini lokugcina, zama. Iya emihlanganweni yenhlangano futhi unikeze izinsiza, iseluleko, ukusekela, nezingxoxo eziwusizo. Futhi qhubeka uvakasha - zenzele ubuso obujwayelekile!

"Umphakathi wakho wezobuciko uyindawo ekahle ngempela yokwakha inethiwekhi yakho." []

3. Lungiselela inkulumo yakho yekheshi 

Abantu kufanele babuze, "Pho, wenzani?" Lungiselela "inkulumo yekheshi" ukuze wazi kahle ukuthi uzothini. Kufanele kube imisho embalwa nje - umzuzu noma ngaphansi - mayelana nokuthi ungubani nokuthi wenzani. Uma benentshisekelo, bazobuza imibuzo eyengeziwe.

"Incazelo yakho esethulo ejwayelekile kufanele ibe mfushane futhi iqonde ngqo" - []

4. Ufuna ukuxhuma, hhayi ukuthengisa

Vala umuzwa wemvelo wokukhangisa. Kunalokho, gxila ekwenzeni ukuxhumana kwangempela nabantu. Buza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi bangobani, benzani, abazithakaselayo, njll. Abantu bafuna ukubona ukuthi bayakwazi yini ukuhlobana nawe.

"Ufuna ukubandakanya omunye umuntu, hhayi ukulawula ingxoxo." []

5. Qoqa amakhadi ebhizinisi futhi ulandelele 

Bonisa intshisekelo ngokuqoqa amakhadi ebhizinisi abantu ohlangana nabo. Bese ulandela. Thumela i-imeyili noma ikhadi leposi futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ufaka phakathi umongo womhlangano. Setha umhlangano wesikhathi esizayo nabangani bakho abakhulu. Funda kabanzi mayelana nendlela yokusebenzisa uhlu lwakho loxhumana nabo.

“Qoqa amakhadi ebhizinisi kuwo wonke umuntu ohlangana naye. Bhala amaphuzu ngazo ngoba uzowalandela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.” []

6. Letha amakhadi akho ebhizinisi (amaningi!)

Qiniseka ukuthi unenqwaba yamakhadi akho ebhizinisi ozowanikeza abantu abathakazelayo. Kuyindlela elula nephrofeshinali yokuthi baxhumane nawe. Ufuna ukudala ikhadi lebhizinisi elikhumbulekayo elinolwazi olulungile? Bheka amathiphu ethu.

7. ukuzijabulisa

Ukuhlangana nabantu abasha kungaba mnandi futhi kugcwale amathuba amahle angapheli. Zola futhi ujabulele ukukhuluma nabantu abathanda ubuciko. Ngeke wazi ukuthi kungase kuholele kuphi. Futhi khumbula, abantu balwela impumelelo yakho!

“Uke wasukuma phambi kwezilaleli wazathula? Kungadida, kodwa qonda ukuthi izethameli zakho zifuna udlule kukho futhi ziyakweseka." []

Ukuhlalisana kungaba ukhiye ebhizinisini lakho lobuciko. Kuzame, kuzokusiza ukuthi wakhe ubudlelwano obufanele.