Mama othandekayo, ngine-tattoo
Omama abawathandi ama-tattoo... Noma kunalokho, mhlawumbe bayabathanda, kodwa ezinganeni zabanye abantu. Ngoba masibhekane nakho, empilweni yami emfishane angikaze ngimbone umama egxuma ngenxa yenjabulo ebona indodana yakhe ibuyela ekhaya ne-tattoo.
Kungani abazali bexabana kangaka ngama-tattoo? Kuncike kubazali noma inkinga yezizukulwane? Ingabe izinkulungwane zeminyaka zanamuhla, ezijwayele ukubona nokwamukela ama-tattoos njengokujwayelekile ngokuphelele, zizoba nokhahlo ezithombeni zezingane zabo?
Le mibuzo yangikhathaza iminyaka eminingana ingaxazululeki. Ngokwesibonelo, umama ukubheka njengesono “ukupenda” umzimba owazalwa uphelele. I-roach ngayinye yinhle kunina, kodwa umqondo oyisisekelo wukuthi umama, owesifazane owazalwa eminyakeni engu-50, bala ama-tattoos njengomonakalo, lokho okuncisha umzimba ubuhle, futhi kungawuhlobisi. “Kuba sengathi kukhona obedlala ngoVenus de Milo noma isifanekiso esihle. Lokho kungaba ukuhlambalaza, akunjalo? Kusho umama ngokuzethemba ukuthi unengxabano egculisayo nengephikiswe.
Ngokweqiniso ... akukho okunye okungabazekayo!
Eqinisweni, ngiphonsela inselelo noma ubani ukuthi athi lesi sithombe esiqoshiwe samaGreki UFabio Viale "Kubi". Angase angamthandi, angase angabhekwa njengomuhle njengesifanekiso esingenamidwebo, kodwa nakanjani akayena "mubi." Wehlukile. Mhlawumbe unendaba ethakazelisa kakhudlwana. Ngokubona kwami, ngoba sikhuluma ngokuthanda, kuhle kakhulu kunokuqala.
Kodwa-ke, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ama-tattoos ayecatshangelwa ukucwaswa kwabagwetshiwe kanye nabephulamthetho... Leli fa, ngeshwa, elingalondolozwanga kangako nanamuhla, kunzima kakhulu ukuliqeda.
Kwabesifazane ikakhulukazi, iqhinga elivamile lokusabisa liwukuthi, "Cabanga ngokuthi ama-tattoos akho azobukeka kanjani njengoba ukhula." noma okubi nakakhulu: “Kuthiwani uma ukhuluphala? Wonke ama-tattoos akhubazekile." noma futhi: “Ama-tattoos awanawo umusa, kodwa uma ushada? Futhi uma kufanele ugqoke ingubo enhle nawo wonke lo mklamo, uyenza kanjani? "
Ukuhonqa okucasuliwe akwanele ukususa ukuphawula okunjalo. Ngeshwa, basavame kakhulu, njengokungathi abesifazane umsebenzi nesibopho sokuhlala umuhle ngokohlu oluvamile lwezincwadi zeBhayibheli, njengokungathi ubuhle buyimfuneko. Futhi ubani onendaba nokuthi ama-tattoos azobukeka kanjani njengoba ngikhula, isikhumba sami se-XNUMXs sizobukeka singcono nakakhulu uma sixoxa indaba yami, akunjalo?
Nokho, ngiyawuqonda umqondo womama. Ngikuqonda kahle lokhu futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi ngizosabela kanjani uma ngelinye ilanga nginengane futhi engitshela ukuthi ufuna i-tattoo (noma ukuthi usenayo kakade). Mina, othanda ama-tattoo, engijwayele ukuwabona, hhayi njengophawu lweziboshwa, ngizosabela kanjani?
Futhi qaphela, kukho konke lokhu kucabanga engikhuluma ngami, osekunesikhathi eside edlula eminyango yomlingo yokukhula. Ngoba kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki, engu-16 noma engu-81, omama banelungelo lokukhuluma okusengqondweni yabo futhi basenze sizizwe kakhudlwana.
Futhi uma ngivunyelwa ukuphetha elinye iqiniso elincane, umama uqinisile ezimweni eziningi: mangaki ama-tattoo amabi, enziwa eneminyaka engu-17, adakwe egumbini elingaphansi noma ekamelweni elingcolile lomngane, abengagwenywa ukuba othile wayelalele lokho. intukuthelo yomuntu. intombazane. Umama?
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