Ukubhoboza ikhala - yini okudingeka ukwazi ngakho?

Kuyini ukubhoboza ikhala? Ingabe kubuhlungu ngempela? Kuthatha izinyanga ezingaki ukuphola? Funda futhi uthole ulwazi olubaluleke kakhulu mayelana nalokhu kwelashwa. 

Ukubhoboza amakhala 

Ukubhoboza ikhala kuyinqubo ehlanganisa ukubhoboza ikhala. Icici lingafakwa ngakwesokudla noma kwesokunxele sekhala, kancane ephakeme (ikhala eliphezulu), Noma ngezansi (ikhala elijwayelekile). Lolu ngolunye lwezinhlobo ezidume kakhulu zokubhoboza ezithandwa abantu bayo yonke iminyaka. 

Uma ukubhoboza kwenziwa ngesandla esinekhono nesinolwazi, kuzothatha imizuzu embalwa. Inqubo nayo ngeke ibe buhlungu kakhulu. Nokho, kuwufanele ukukhumbula ukuthi isilinganiso ubuhlungu obukhulu lolu wudaba lomuntu ngamunye. Abantu abaningana abenza inqubo efanayo kanye naku-salon efanayo bangachaza imizwa yabo ngezindlela ezihluke ngokuphelele. 

Ukuphulukiswa kuyaqhubeka cishe izinyanga ezingu-2-3. Le nqubo ithonywa izici eziningi, ngakho futhi, kuye ngomuntu, ingaba yinde noma ibe mfushane. Nokho, awashintshile. imithethonqubo ukunakekelwa kokubhoboza:

• Kufanele zihlanzwe njalo ngokulandela imiyalelo enikezwe uchwepheshe.
• Kungcono ukuthi ungalisusi icici okungenani ingxenye yokuqala yenkathi yokuphulukisa. Kuyafaneleka ukuxoxa ngalolu daba ngokucophelela nomuntu oqhuba inqubo.
• Ngesikhathi sokuphulukiswa, kungcono ukuthi ungasebenzisi izimonyo ezinemibala ezungeze indawo yokubhoboza, futhi usebenzise izisusa zokwakheka. 
• Uma kwenzeka noma yiziphi izinguquko ezikhathazayo phakathi nale nqubo, kufanele uthinte ngokushesha umuntu obhobozile futhi uthole usizo lwakhe. 

Ukulungiselela inqubo 

Ngisho noma ukubhoboza ikhala lakho kungase kubonakale kulula, kufanele kwenziwe Kuphela ngomuntu nekhono, onolwazi futhi ocophelelayo. Ngakho-ke uma uphupha ngecici, ungavumeli noma ubani okwenzayo okokuqala empilweni yakhe ayinakekele noma engalandeli imithetho eyisisekelo yokuphepha. 

Kungcono ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti naye uchwepheshe ukubhoboza salonlapho ochwepheshe bangempela basebenza khona. Ungayibona kanjani? Qala ngokubheka iwebhusayithi yabo noma iphrofayili yenkundla yezokuxhumana. ngijwayelene Amazwana ekhishwe amakhasimende. Bheka abantu abasebenzise izinsiza kubantu obajwayele futhi ubuze mayelana nokuvela kwabo. 

Noma ungavele ulungiselele uhlu lwemibuzo bese ushayela i-salon. Enjalo khuluma lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ujwayelane nekhwalithi yenkonzo futhi wazi ukuthi usebenzelana nochwepheshe. Phakathi nengxoxo, ingabe kukhona okukuphethe kabi? Zama okusemandleni akho sula ukungabaza kwakhofuthi uma usenomuzwa wokuthi lowo oxoxa naye akanikezi izimpendulo eziqondile noma akafuni ukuchitha isikhathi kuwe, bheka enye indawo.