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Iminyaka engu-XNUMX ifuna ukubhoboza, kepha konke ukubhoboza kuyenqaba

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Isithombe: Emily Wheeler Fonte: BBC.co.uk

Lena indaba yentombazane eneminyaka engu-8 ubudala yaseDevon efuna ukutotoswa ngokubhoboza usuku lwayo lokuzalwa. Ube esehamba nomama wakhe baye ezitudiyo nasezindaweni zokudweba imifanekiso, kodwa wonke umuntu uyenqaba ukubhobozwa ngoba U-Emily une-Down syndromefuthi lokhu, ngokusho kwababhobozi, kubonisa ukuthi angeke athweswe icala ngalokhu kukhetha. Ekugcineni okuthiwa ukubhoboza Nicholas Pinch uyavuma ukusebenzisa ukubhoboza lokho u-Emily akufunayo, eqiniseka ukuthi intombazane ingase ingagcini nje ngokufuna ukubhoboza, kodwa futhi ikhethe indlela yokufaka isicelo nokuhlobisa.

Kungani abaphathi bangaphambili benqaba ukubhoboza u-Emily? Ingabe babenephutha noma baphumelele? Umama ka-Emily u-Vicky uqinisekile ukuthi izifundo eziyi-8 ziyekwa ngenxa yokuchema nolwazi olunganembile nge-Down syndrome. UVicki uthi behlangene no-Emlili, baxhumane nezikhungo zokubhoboza eziningana kusenesikhathi, kodwa batshelwa ukuthi bamatasa kakhulu noma sebenezincwadi ezigcwele. Abanye “babeqotho” ngokwengeziwe lapho besho lokho abakucabangayo U-Emily akazange aqonde futhi amnike imvume.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, isicelo sika-Emily sasingeqile noma siwubukhazikhazi, ngoba ukubhoboza okukhulunywa ngakho kuqukethe izimbobo zakudala kuphela ezindlebeni!

Nokho, u-Emily uyakwazi ukuxhumana, futhi yena ngokwakhe wabonisa hhayi nje isifiso ukubhoboza izindlebe zakhe, kodwa futhi ukuzimisela okukhulu nokuphikelela ekufinyeleleni lokho ayekufuna. Ekugcineni, imizamo yakhe yaba nezithelo njengoba umdubuli u-Nicholas Pinch evuma ukumsiza. Wathi ngokwakhe: “Uma umuntu ekhubazeke kangangokuthi akakwazi ukukhuluma ngokwanele, lokhu kungenye indaba, ngoba ayikwazi ukuvuma ngokucacile ukubhoboza... Nokho, u-Emily wakhuluma nami, futhi wangicela ukuba ngizibhoboze, futhi engicela ukuba ngikwenze ngenaliti, hhayi ngesibhamu. Wakwazi nokukhetha itshe eliyigugu. Ngakho-ke sasingekho isizathu sokukhathazeka, kungasaphathwa isizathu sokumxosha. "

Khona-ke u-Nikolai waveza umbono wakhe kunethiwekhi mayelana nozakwabo, ethi unamahloni ngokuziphatha kwabo okunyanyekayo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unina uVicky, utusa indodakazi yakhe ngokuzimisela kwayo, futhi uyanezela: “U-Emily uye wabhekana nokulahlwa izikhathi eziningi ekuphileni kwakhe, kodwa akazange adikibale noma adikibale. Ufuna nje ukwenza okwenziwa amanye amantombazane alingana naye.”