Izinhlobo zokubhoboza
Ukubhoboza uhlobo lokuguqulwa nokuguqulwa komzimba womuntu olusebenzisa ukubhoboza esikhunjeni nasezitho zangaphandle. Umbuzo ubonakala unengqondo impela: kungani ukubhoboza?
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lolu uhlobo lokuzikhomba emphakathini othile, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyisifiso sokugqama esixukwini futhi uphawule ngokuhluka komuntu.
Abantu abaningi bazigwaza ngoba bathi yinhle ngokombono wobuhle. Kunoma ikuphi, wonke umuntu uqondiswa yizinhloso kanye namagugu akhe. Ngokuvamile, izinhlobo zokubhoboza zihluke kakhulu. Kulesi sihloko, sizobheka ezithandwa kakhulu.
Idume kakhulu kuma-fashionistas angaphansi kweminyaka yobudala, abathandi beziqongo ezimfushane kanye namantombazane nje angenqeni ukubukisa ngesisu sabo esingenalutho ngenkathi efudumele. Ukubhoboza inkaba akunabuhlungu. Amaviki okuqala ambalwa inxeba lizoqaqamba kakhulu futhi lidale ukuphazamiseka okukhulu... Ngokwemvelo, kule nkathi yesikhathi, kungcono ukukhohlwa ngezemidlalo, ngoba ngisho nokuthambekela okulula komzimba kungaholela ezinhlungwini. Icici kufanele lisuswe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kuvamile phakathi kwamantombazane nabafana. Ezimweni eziningi, lolu hlobo lokubhoboza luthandwa "yimikhuba engafanele". Alikho icici akufanele uthinte amazinyo, njengoba kunengozi yokulimala koqweqwe lwawo. Kwezinye izimo, lokhu kubhoboza kubukeka kukuhle impela, kepha ekuqaleni umnikazi wayo uzoba nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu. Izinkinga ngokusetshenziswa kwesichazamazwi nokudla akunakugwenywa.
Ngasikhathi sinye, konke ukudla okungadala ukungakhululeki nakho kuzobe kungatholakali (kuyabanda, kuyashisa, kunosawoti, kuqinile, kuyababa). Kodwa-ke, konke lokhu kuphazamiseka kuphaphathekile uma kuqhathaniswa namathe, avame ukungena okhalweni. Kunconywa ukuthi ubuke nje kwi-Intanethi ukuthi ukubhoboza kwenziwa kanjani, ividiyo okulula kakhulu ukuyithola enetheni. Yilapho okufanele ucabangisise khona ngokuba semthethweni nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukubhoboza okunjalo.
Lolu hlobo luthandwa kakhulu futhi lusakazeke kabanzi. Kulokhu, ukubhoboza indlebe akubuhlungu kangako ekubhobozeni ezinye izindawo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isilonda siyaphola ngenyanga eyodwa nje. Namuhla, ukubhoboza endlebeni kungenziwa kokubili ku-lobe ethambile nasenkalweni enzima.
Imvamisa ukubhoboza kwenziwa endaweni yephiko lekhala. Iseptum yamakhala isetshenziswa kaningi kakhulu. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukubhoboza amakhala akho kuyinto ebuhlungu kakhulu! Futhi, ngesikhathi sekhala eligobhoza, icici emakhaleni lingakulethela izinkinga eziningi.
Ukubhoboza amashiya sekuyisikhathi eside kubonwa njengento ejwayelekile futhi ejwayelekile. Icici livela njengomhlobiso, ofana nebha enamabhola ezinhlangothini zombili. Ubuningi bemithambo yegazi nokuphela kwemizwa kugxilwe kule ndawo, ngakho-ke, lapho kubhobozwa, kuphuma kakhulu igazi futhi kuphulukise kuze kube izinyanga ezimbili. Ungabona nokuthi ukubhoboza ishiya kwenziwa kanjani kwi-Intanethi ngaphandle kwezinkinga.
Le yinqubo ebuhlungu ngokweqile futhi ebabayo. Ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane, kuyingozi enkulu kakhulu. Kulokhu, babeka engcupheni enkulu eyabo neyempilo yezingane zabo zesikhathi esizayo. Isilonda siyaphola isikhathi eside kakhulu (cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha), ngesikhathi sokulala, umuntu uzizwa engakhululekile ngokusobala.
Umkhuba omfashini kakhulu, kepha uyingozi enkulu empilweni. Lapha wena futhi ukuvuvukala okukhulu kolimi ngemuva kokubhoboza, nokubhujiswa kwenqwaba yamahlumela wokunambitha. Wonke umsebenzi kufanele wenziwe ngabachwepheshe kuphela. Ngaphandle kwalokho, imithambo yegazi engaphakathi esithombeni ingalimala.
Ngingagwazwa nini?
Amakhasimende amaningi angaba nentshisekelo kulo mbuzo: kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukubhobozwa? Iqiniso eliphelele lizoba ukuthi ama-salon asemthethweni ahloniphekile angaphansi kweminyaka eyi-18 awahlikihli. Ngasikhathi sinye, ukubhoboza ingxenye eyodwa noma enye yomzimba ngaphambi kokufika kule minyaka akuyona nje kuphela ingozi empilweni, kepha futhi futhi akujabulisi ngobuhle.
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