Kungani umlingo ngezinye izikhathi ungasebenzi?

Wenze isipelingi noma isiko hhayi lutho. Ucabanga ukuthi umlingo ungamanga. Noma mhlawumbe ubunephutha?...Abantu bavame ukucabanga ukuthi yenza lokho okushiwo iresiphi futhi bayothola noma yini abayifunayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho isiko liyinkimbinkimbi noma lidinga isikhathi, isineke, nezithako okunzima ukuzithola, ziyadangala. Ngoba empilweni kufanele usebenze kanzima, futhi umlingo kufanele ube lula - chofoza, futhi yilokho. Hhayi! Umlingo uyinkimbinkimbi, futhi umphumela wesiko uwumkhiqizo womzamo, amandla, nokholo.

Nazi izimbangela ezivame kakhulu zokwehluleka:

Amaphutha esikweni

Hlola ukuthi ulenze kahle yini isiko. Mhlawumbe uphuthelwe imininingwane ethile? Amasiko omlingo adinga ukunemba, ngisho nokunemba kwekhemisi. Yonke into encane ibalulekile. Akuyona into engaqondakali ukuthi kusetshenziswe inombolo echazwe ngokuqinile yezithako, isibonelo, amaconsi ama-3, okusanhlamvu okungu-7, njll. Amaresiphi akhiwe phakathi namakhulu eminyaka awakwazi ukushintshwa ngokuthanda, umuntu akakwazi ukufaka isithako esisodwa esikhundleni kwesinye ngenxa nje yokuthi kubiza kakhulu noma nzima. Ukuze uthole !! 

Umthelela wesiko ungaqedwa ngisho nangento encane nje indlela amakhandlela akhanya futhi acinywe ngayo. Sebenzisa kuphela umentshisi wokukhanyisa, hhayi okokukhanyisa, futhi ucime ilangabi ngeminwe yakho noma ikepisi elikhethekile, kungazelelwe ucime ilangabi. Lokhu kuqeda amandla okufanele akusebenzele.

Ukuntuleka kokugxilisa ingqondo

Ngokwenza isiko, uvula amandla afihlwe ngaphakathi kuwe. Kodwa ukuze ubavuse futhi ubathobe, akumelwe uphazamiseke. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukumehlisa umoya futhi umsuse kukho konke okunye kodwa umgomo ofuna ukuwufinyelela ngaphambi kokuqhubeka.

Lo mgomo kufanele uchazwe ngokucacile ngangokunokwenzeka, ukhulume ngokuzwakalayo noma ubhalwe ephepheni, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu uboniswe ngokuningiliziwe ukuze kungabikho amaphutha, ngoba amandla avame ukwenza ngokuvumelana nomugqa wokumelana okuncane. Lapho ingqondo yakho izulazula ngenkathi ubuka ngeso lengqondo, kungenzeka ukuthi isiqeshana esithile sizogcwaliseka. Isibonelo, uma wethula umgomo wakho "wokukhangisa", ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kumthukuthelisa kanjani lo muntu we-IT, ungamangali uma ekhushulwa esikhundleni sakho.

Ulindele imiphumela maduze

Umlingo awukona ukudla okusheshayo lapho oda khona futhi ukuthole. Umuntu kufanele alinde, ngezinye izikhathi isikhathi eside, ahlakulele inhloso kuye, ayiqinise ngokuqinisekisa kwansuku zonke futhi angalahli ithemba. Uma ulahlekelwa nguye, ungase ungabi nandaba. Isibonelo, uma wenza isiko ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, ngosuku lokuqala lonyaka, noma ngosuku lwe-spring equinox, usuku lokuqeda lungaba unyaka. Enyangeni entsha - ngokuvamile kufika enyangeni, kuze kufike inyanga entsha elandelayo. Kunoma yikuphi, kufanele ubone imiphumela yokuqala.

Amanye amasiko adinga ukuphindwa, ngisho nangaphezu kokukodwa. Kufana nokuthatha isibulala-magciwane - umthamo owodwa noma ngaphezulu akwanele, futhi ukuyeka ukwelashwa kungalimaza. Ukwelashwa okuphelele kuyadingeka.

Awunalo ukholo

Ukusebenza kwemikhuba kuhambisana ngqo nokukholelwa kwakho kuyo, kuya ngokuthi unesiqiniseko esingu-XNUMX% sokuthi ufuna ukuyenza. Konke ukungabaza kuvimbela ukuhamba kwamandla. Ungakwazi ukuphonsa iziphonso, kodwa uma ucabanga ukuthi: "lokhu kuyize, umlingo awusebenzi," kungcono ukulala ngokushesha. Uma ungakholwa, isiko liyoba ifomu elingenalutho kuphela, ngoba yimicabango nemizwa yakho egcwalisa amandla !!

Isibonelo, wenza isipelingi sokuzala ngoba uphupha ingane, kodwa usenomhlane wekhanda lakho: phela odokotela bathi anginalo ithuba lalokho. Hhayi-ke, uma ucabanga kanjalo, akunjalo ngempela.

Awulungile!

Umkhuba womlingo ufana nembewu. Emhlabathini ovundile kuphela lapho liyohluma futhi lithele izithelo. Lo mhlaba ungumphefumulo wakho. Uma kubuswa isiphithiphithi, ukudideka, ukwesaba kanye nemizwa emibi, ngisho nokupela okuhle kakhulu akukwazi ukushintsha impilo yakho. Leli yiqiniso abantu abambalwa abafuna ukulivuma.

Kumele uqale kuwena ngokuzihlanza kulokho okubambile. Isibonelo, uma ufuna ukuqalisa ubudlelwano, sebenzela ukuthethelela abantu abathandayo futhi ube nokuzethemba okwengeziwe ngaphambi kokwenza isiko lakho lokukhanga uthando. Uma ufuna ukuceba, cabanga ukuthi imali imbi yini engqondweni yakho bese wenza insada yesiko. 

Uzoyifeza inhloso yakho uma usuphenduke umuntu okwaziyo ukuyifeza. Khona-ke isiko liyoba kuphela ukubekwa uphawu kwenqubo, ichashaza lesaga phezu kuka-i. Futhi-ke uzomangala ukuthi umlingo unamandla kangakanani.

Uthembele kuphela eziphongweni

Futhi awenzi lutho. Umlingo akuwona owamavila! Akukho okuzokwenzeka ngokwako uma ungafaki umzamo kukho. Isiko lingase likusize, ukwandise amathuba akho okuphumelela, kodwa ngeke likusize ngalutho. Awukho umlingo ozosebenza uma uhlezi ugoqe izingalo ulindele uthando, umsebenzi nengcebo ukuthi ikuthele phezu kwakho...

Uyafuna ukuwina ilotho? Thenga okungenani ithikithi elilodwa. Ingabe uphupha ngomsebenzi ongcono? Thumela i-resume yakho. Ingabe ufuna uthando? Phuma uye kubantu. Okunengqondo, akunjalo? 

Ingabe lesi isidingo sangempela? 

Uma, noma kunjalo, isiko lingazange lisebenze, mhlawumbe lokho ofuna ukukufeza ngakho akukhona lokho obuhlosile, noma ngeke kukulethele injabulo nhlobo. Mhlawumbe isiphetho sinezinye izinhlelo ngawe?… Ufuna, isibonelo, ukuthola umsebenzi enkampanini ukuze uthole imali enhle, kodwa ubizo lwakho empilweni wukuba yiciko futhi udale imisebenzi edala inkathi noma usize abanye. 

Noma mhlawumbe umlingani ushiye futhi, naphezu kokwelashwa komlingo, akazange abuyele? Futhi ngenhlanhla! Namanje ubungeke ujabule naye. Futhi ngemuva kwesikhashana, uhlangana nomuntu ophenduka isithandwa sakho somphefumulo, futhi obungeke uhlangane naye ngenkathi usabambekile kulobo budlelwano. Namuhla, lokho okubonakala kuyishwa kuwe, ngemva kwesikhathi esithile ungakwazi ukwahlulela njengento engcono kakhulu eyenzeka kuwe empilweni yakho. 

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