Ukuphikisa izinganekwane mayelana nendawo yokubhoboza nezocansi

 Kuzo zonke izindawo zokubhoboza edolobheni lase-Toronto, minyaka yonke, izinkulungwane zamakhasimende ziyabuza, "Ingabe lukhona uhlangothi lwezitabane lokubhoboza?" Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungani bebuza, impendulo yethu ilula futhi icacile, ukubhoboza akukhombisi ubulili bakho. Nguwe kuphela ongakwenza.

Siyaqonda ukuthi ziningi izizathu ezenza abantu babuze. Abanye abantu bafuna ukumemezela ubulili babo emhlabeni, abanye abafuni ukuhlanekezela isithombe sabo. Nokho, ababhobozi abaningi bangase babonakale becasukile uma ubuza. Futhi isizathu silula, la mahemuhemu abe khona isikhathi eside futhi aveza ukubhoboza njengento engeyona. 

Le nganekwane ilinganisele abantu abaningi ekukhetheni kwabo ukubhoboza, futhi kubonakala sengathi yaqala esikhathini lapho abantu babengabamukeli kancane ubulili babanye abantu.

Ivelaphi le nganekwane?

Esikhathini lapho umphakathi wawungawamukeli kancane isiko le-LGBTQ+, abantu babekholelwa ukuthi abantu be-LGBTQ+ basebenzisa ikhodi ukuze batshelane ngezimo zabo zobulili. Ngokuvamile kwakuhlotshaniswa nokubhobozwa indlebe, ishiya noma ikhala.

 Kunzima ukuqiniseka ukuthi lokhu bekuyiqiniso yini, ngoba abantu bavame ukusho ukuthi uhlangothi lwesobunxele njengoba bebelungile.

 Nokho, lokhu akunjalo neze namuhla. Abantu akufanele bazizwe benesidingo sokufihla ukuthi bangobani, ngakho isidingo sokuziveza ngekhodi asinandaba. Kunalokho, ukuphikelela kwale nganekwane kuwuphawu lokusatshiswa nokulahlwa.

Kusho ukuthini ukubhoboza uhlangothi olulodwa noma olunye?

Ngokwengxenye enkulu, uhlangothi lomzimba oluhlabayo alunandaba ngempela. Isizathu esiyinhloko sokukhetha uhlangothi lokubhoboza ubuhle. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhetha uhlangothi isekelwe ekutheni izobukeka kanjani. Ngale ndlela cabanga:

• ikhanda
• Isimo sobuso
• Izici zobuso
• Okunye ukubhoboza

Kunezizathu ezithile zamasiko ezindala abantu abangazicabangela. Ngokwesiko lamaHindu, kuyisiko ukukhetha uhlangothi lwesobunxele lokubhoboza ikhala. Futhi emithini yendabuko yamaShayina, uhlangothi lwesobunxele lwalubhekwa njengowesifazane, futhi uhlangothi lwesokudla lungowesilisa. Nokho, namuhla alukho uhlangothi oluboshelwe ubulili. 

Thola ukubhoboza okuthandayo eNewmarket

Uma kuziwa ekukhetheni uhlangothi lokubhoboza kwakho, okuwukuphela kwenani okudingeka ulibheke ukuthi yiluphi uhlangothi oluthanda kangcono. Umbono wokuthi uhlangothi olulodwa lubonisa ukukhetha kwakho kwezocansi uphelelwe yisikhathi futhi awusebenzi esikweni lanamuhla. 

Futhi, ukubhoboza kwakho kumayelana nawe, hhayi ngabantu abenza izahlulelo ezisheshayo ngokusekelwe ekubukekeni kwakho. Ngakho gwazwa ngokuthanda kwakho, hhayi ukujabulisa abanye. Gcoba namuhla endaweni yethu entsha yaseNewmarket!