I-BDSM - kuyini, amagajethi, i-BDSM yabaqalayo

I-BDSM iwuhlobo locansi oluhlanganisa indima ebusayo kanye nokuzithoba. Izimpawu ze-BDSM zihlanganisa ubugqila, ukuziphatha, ukubusa nokuzithoba. Ucansi lwe-BDSM lunesisekelo esikhulu sabalandeli, kodwa futhi kunezingxabano eziningi ngenxa yokusebenzisa ubudlova. Yini okufanele ukwazi nge-BDSM?

1. Yini i-BDSM?

I-BDSM imele izinhlamvu zokuqala zamagama amane esiNgisi: ubugqila, isiyalo, ukubusa ekuzithobeni (ubugqila, isiyalo, ukubusa nokuzithoba). Lolu uhlobo locansi lapho umuntu oyedwa edlala indima enkulu (phezulu) kanti omunye edlala indima engaphansi (phansi).

Imvamisa indima ku-BDSM zinikezwa unomphela ozakwethu, kodwa kwesinye isikhathi zingashintshwa ngemuva kwezingxoxo ezihlanganyelwe. Ngesikhathi socansi lwe-BDSM, kusetshenziswa izindlela zokuphoqelela nesiyalo, kodwa ukuya ocansini akubhekwa njengokudlwengula.

2. Yini i-BDSM?

• ubugqila - umuntu oyedwa uboshiwe, okwandisa umuzwa wamandla womlingani,
• isiyalo - isiyalo sisetshenziswa kwabazithobayo, ukungalaleli kuyajeziswa,
• ukubusa (dominion) - umuntu oyedwa unquma inkambo yomhlangano futhi anikeze imiyalo,
• uxhaso (ukuhambisa) - ukulalela kuchaza umuntu owavuma ukuthotshiswa nokuphoqwa.

3. Amagajethi asetshenziswa ngesikhathi socansi lwe-BDSM

• izintambo zokubamba,
• izixhumanisi,
• ozankosi,
• izinsimbi neziqeshana (ezivamise ukubekwa ezingonweni),
• isiswebhu - beka izinhlawulo ngaphandle kwengozi yokusika isikhumba,
• isiswebhu - kubangela ubuhlungu obunzima, obunganconywa kwabaqalayo,
• izintambo,
• imaski,
• intambo,
• ikhola,
• ama-scarves - asetshenziselwa ukufihla,
• amasudi e-latex.

4. I-BDSM yabaqalayo

Ubulili be-BDSM akudingeki busekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okwedlulele, imicabango enjalo ingase yethulwe kancane kancane futhi ivumelane nezintandokazi zomuntu ngamunye. Indlela enhle yokuhlukanisa impilo yakho yocansi ingaba evala amehlo akhookwandisa umuzwa futhi ngokuzenzekelayo kwenza umuntu oyedwa asebenze kakhudlwana futhi abuse.

Ngemva kwesikhashana, ungazama ukubopha izandla zakho ndawonye noma uzibophe, isibonelo, ekhanda lombhede. Abaqalayo bayelulekwa ukuthi basebenzise indwangu noma uthayi kunozankosi. Ngenxa yalokho, umuntu othobekile uyaqaphela ukuthi angazikhulula noma nini.

Uma bobabili abalingani bejabulela ukwethulwa kwezakhi ze-BDSM, khona-ke ukugcizelela okunamandla ekuhlukaniseni izindima kungenziwa futhi izijeziso, ezifana nokushaya, zingethulwa.

5. Ingabe ucansi lwe-BDSM lusemthethweni?

Umkhuba we-BDSM e-Poland ngemvume yabo bobabili ozakwethu awukho ngaphansi kwezinhlawulo ezingokomthetho. Ukuboshwa iminyaka emibili kuya kweyi-2 kusongela labo abagqugquzela udlame locansi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhona amazwe lapho ubulili be-BDSM buvinjelwe khona. Isibonelo i-United Kingdom, lapho kungekho khona imvume yokuzwisa omunye umuntu ubuhlungu, ngisho noma evuma.

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