I-Fetish - kuyini, izinhlobo zezithixo. Yini i-fetishist?

Mhlawumbe, ngamunye wethu unokuthile akuthandayo okwenza ukuhlangana kujabulise nakakhulu. Abantu abaningi babiza lezi zintandokazi ngokuthi izigqila. Eqinisweni, i-fetish ayisona isikhuthazo socansi, kodwa isimo sokwaneliseka ngokocansi. I-fetishist umuntu othanda ucansi ngendlela engavamile. Umuntu onokuthambekela okunjalo angase, ngokwesibonelo, ahlatshwe umxhwele imilenze yabesifazane, kodwa lokhu akuwona umthetho. Umthakathi uzoba nezinye izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye nezici zokukhulekela ezizomvuselela nakakhulu ucansi. Inkinga iphakama uma lesi dlozi sidala i-orgasm noma singamthokozisi umlingani. Ezimweni ezithile, ukuthakathwa komuntu oyedwa kungabangela ukulimala komunye, futhi ukuziphatha okunjalo kufanele kwelashwe.

1. Yini ikhungo?

Igama elithi "ifetish" livela egameni lesiFulentshi elithi fétiche futhi lisuka kwelesiPutukezi elithi feitiço elisho i-amulet noma isipelingi. Ochwepheshe abaningi basikisela ukuthi igama elithi fetish lihlobene negama elithi facere, elisho ukudala okuthile.

Ososayensi bachaza isigqila njengento, ingxenye ethile yesimo noma indawo edingekayo ukuze kuzuzwe ukwaneliseka okuphelele kocansi kumuntu othakazelayo. Ikhubalo alisona isikhuthazo socansi, kodwa ukungabi khona kwaso kungabangela imizwelo yocansi ejulile, ngezinye izikhathi. akukho injabulo noma ngisho ukungabi namandla.

Ungakhuluma nge-fetish njenge-disorder lapho ukungabikho kokuvuselela okuthile akukuvumeli ukuba ujabulele ubulili nokusondelana, i.e. kusibekela yonke intokozo yokuya ocansini bese kuba ukuthatheka, ngokwesibonelo, lapho owesilisa evuka inkanuko kuphela lapho umlingani wakhe egqokile. amasokisi amasokisi.

Ezimweni eziningi, indoda ingavulwa yiqiniso lokuthi owesifazane ugqoke amasokisi. Lokhu kujabula kubangelwa isici sokugqoka, hhayi ukubukeka kowesifazane.

Enye inkinga iphakama lapho isangoma sijabulisa kakhulu omunye futhi sinyanye omunye.

2. Iyini i-fetishism?

I-Fetishism i-paraphilia, ukuphazamiseka kwezocansi. Kungase kube ukwakheka kwe-pathological. I-Fetishism ifakiwe eqenjini lezinkinga zocansi ezifana nokubukisa, i-pedophilia kanye ne-sadomasochism.

I-fetishism ingatholwa nini? Ngokusho kwe-American Psychiatric Association, uma ukuthatheka ngokocansi ngento ethile, njengezinyawo, kuthatha isikhathi eside kunezinyanga ezingu-6, singakhuluma nge-fetishism. Itholakala uma ibangela ukungakhululeki okuphawulekayo noma iphazamisa ukugcwaliseka kwendima yezenhlalo, yobungcweti noma yomndeni, futhi ukuvuka nokwaneliseka kungenzeka ikakhulukazi phakathi nokuhlangenwe nakho kwe-fetishistic.

Isigqila singaba yingxenye yomzimba, indatshana yokugqoka (njengempahla yangaphansi), kanye nezinto ezisetshenziswayo ezivusa inkanuko ezifana nozankosi noma isidlidlizi. I-fetishist idinga ukukhuthazwa okwengeziwe ukuze inkanuko yayo yocansi kanye nocansi lwenelise. Ukuze ucansi luphumelele, i-fetishist iyidinga ngokuphelele into ayifisayo. Ukuba khona nje kozakwethu akwanele.

Ngokusho kocwaningo, ama-fetishists avame kakhulu amadoda, kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi abekho abesifazane phakathi kwezinyanga.

Ezimweni eziningi, i-fetishism ingaba yinkinga enkulu kakhulu hhayi kuphela ku-fetishist ngokwakhe, kodwa nakwabathandekayo bakhe. Kwenzeka ukuthi i-fetishist ayisekho isithakazelo kukho konke okungahlobene nokuzwela kwakhe. Esimweni esinjalo, kufanele ufune ukwelashwa ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ngezinye izikhathi i-fetishism yenzeka kanye nesifo esibi sobuntu noma ukugula kwengqondo, bese-ke ukulahlekelwa ukwaneliseka ngokocansi kumane kungenye yezimpawu zezinkinga ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo ezidinga ukwelashwa okufanele.

3. Izinhlobo zemilingo

Kunezinhlobo ezahlukene kakhulu zekhubalo. Izinto zokuzilibazisa zocansi ezidume kakhulu:

• i-feederism - i-fetishism ehlobene nokukhuluphala komunye umuntu,
• i-podofilia - isifo sonyawo,
• i-autogynephilia - i-fetishist ivuswa ngesikhathi lapho icabanga ukuthi ingowesifazane.
• i-stigmatophilia - i-fetishist ikhangwa ngokocansi kubantu abanama-tattoos,
• alvinophilia - inkaba fetishism
• i-acrotomophilia, i-dysmorphophilia - umzimba ogogekile noma okhubazekile womlingani uyisithakathi,
• i-phallophilia - isikhunta esihlotshaniswa nobukhulu obukhulu bepipi,
• i-asphyxiophilia - i-fetishism ehlotshaniswa nokuziklinya wena noma umlingani ngesikhathi socansi,
• ubuphekula - ubufebe busekelwe ekuxabaneni komzimba womuntu ongamazi (ngokwesibonelo, emabhasini agcwele abantu, ezitimeleni noma ezitimeleni),
• i-nasolingus - i-fetishist ifinyelela ukwaneliseka ngokocansi kuphela lapho ikwazi ukuncela ikhala lomlingani wocansi,
• i-knismolagnia - i-ticklishness iyidlozi
• i-stenolagnia - isilingo esihlotshaniswa nomuzwa wokwaneliseka ngokocansi lapho usebenza nemisipha eqoshiwe,
• I-scatology yocingo - isilingo kuleli cala ingxoxo yocingo yocansi,
• i-pubephilia - izinwele ze-pubic ziyinto yesifiso se-fetishist,
• i-catoptronophilia - i-fetishism ehlotshaniswa nokuzuza ukwaneliseka ngokocansi lapho ubona isithombe sesibuko,
• urophilia - umchamo uyinto yesifiso socansi,
• i-coprophilia - into yesifiso socansi yindle,
• i-endophilia - ukuzuzwa kokwaneliseka ngokocansi kungenzeka ku-fetishist kuphela ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini nabalingani abagqokile,
• i-graviditophilia - into yesifiso socansi yisisu sowesifazane okhulelwe,
• i-enemaphilia - ukwaneliseka ngokocansi kutholakala ngosizo lwe-enema ye-rectal,
• i-necrophilia - ukuya ocansini nomuntu oshonile,
• i-agorafila - izindawo zomphakathi ziyisikhuthazo socansi.

4. Yini okufanele uyenze uma inyanga yakho iba yinto ethathekayo?

Kungase kubonakale sengathi ukukhangwa ngokobulili akuyona into eyingozi, ngoba ngamunye wethu udinga ushintsho ekamelweni. Inqobo nje uma konke kwenziwa ngokulinganisela, akukho okufanele sikhathazeke ngakho. Kodwa-ke, lapho izinkanuko zobulili zinamandla kakhulu futhi zenzeka kubo bonke ocansini, omunye angase angazamukeli.

Kunezikhathi lapho isangoma singathatha isimo sokuthatheka. Imikhuba ehlala njalo futhi engavamile, evame ukuvimbela ngokuphawulekayo ubulili obuvamile, isibonelo, ukwenza uthando endaweni eyodwa kuphela, isibonelo, "ngemuva", noma kuphela ngemva kokuphuza utshwala obuningi.

Izinhlobo zobuthakathi nazo zingaba yingozi. Ikakhulukazi uma sibhekene nezinhlobo ezinjalo zobuthakathi njenge-sadomasochism, ukuklinywa, ukucwiywa kozakwethu bocansi noma ukuphakelayo. Ukwelashwa kwe-fetishism ngokuvamile kuthatha isikhathi eside futhi kudinga umsebenzi omningi ohlangothini lwesiguli kanye nomlingani waso.

Masikhumbule lokho kuphumelele ucansi obanelisayo lokhu, ngakolunye uhlangothi, okunye esikuthandayo, kodwa futhi ukusetshenziswa kwengcebo yezinhlobonhlobo ezivusa inkanuko.

Abantu abajwayele kakhulu, ngisho nabanamathele emasikweni, abakwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele amathuba amakhulu anikezwa ubulili. Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu ekwazi okungenani ukuzama izinto ezintsha ngezikhathi ezithile, khona-ke akakabi mubi kangako.

Esimeni lapho kuwe umaqondana noma ukunamathela kwakhe ngokweqile emasikweni athile kuyinkinga enkulu, ungazami “ukumphulukisa ngothando lwakho” kwasekuqaleni. Khuluma ngokwethembeka kuqala, ngaphandle kwemithi, intukuthelo noma ukucasuka, bese ucela usizo lochwepheshe. Esimweni esinjalo, i-psychotherapy iphumelela kakhulu. Esimweni lapho i-fetishism iqala ukucekela phansi ubuhlobo bakho nomuntu omthandayo, qiniseka ukuthi uthintana nochwepheshe, isazi sezocansi. Lokhu kuzosiza ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezihambisana ne-fetishism. Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nodokotela bengqondo nazo zibhekana nenkinga ye-fetishism.

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