Carezza, i.e. ucansi lumile. Yini okufanele ukwazi ngayo?

I-Carezza iwubuciko be-tantric bokwandisa isikhathi socansi. Umgomo womzamo ukugcina abalingani besigaba sokuvuka okuqinile isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuvimbela umlingani ekukhipheni isidoda. Ukuze ucansi luhlale isikhathi eside ngokwanele, kusetshenziswa izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokucindezela i-orgasm. Yini okudingeka ukwazi nge-karezza?

1. Kuyini i-karezza?

I-Karezza ucansi olude kakhulu oluhloselwe ukugcina abantu benza ucansi esigabeni sokuvuka okunamandla isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka (isigaba sethafa), ngaphandle kokuqhanyelwa ngumlingani wesidoda.

Umkhuba we-karezza ubhekisela kubuciko be-tantric bothando obuvela eNdiya. Igama lenqubo livela olimini lwesiNtaliyane. i-carezza kusho phulula. Leli gama libolekwe udokotela wezifo zabesifazane waseMelika u-Alice Bunker Stockham. I-Carezza, ngakho-ke ubulili be-tantric, buphambene "nezinombolo ezisheshayo".

Ngokungafani nobuhlobo bobulili obuthile (i-coitus interruptus), lolu hlobo lothando lubizwa ngokuthi i-coitus reservatus. Nakuba ukuya ocansini ngezikhathi ezithile kungabangela i-neurosis, ukukhungatheka, kubangele ukungezwani nokugxila ekumiseni i-ejaculation ezayo, i-karezza kufanele ikhulise injabulo kanye nemizwa ejabulisayo. I-Orgasm ifiphala ngemuva. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukugujwa okungajahiswanga kobunye nozakwethu.

2. Indlela ye-Carezza

UCarezza uwuhlobo oluthile uthando art ngesisekelo sokuhlangenwe nakho kwezinzwa, okuhlanganisa ukuya ocansini ngaphandle kokukhipha isidoda noma ngokwandisa okuphawulekayo kwesikhathi okwenzeka ngaso. Abathandanayo benza ucansi oluvilaphayo. Baqabulane, baphululane, baphululane, babukane emehlweni.

Iyini inhloso yobudlelwano obucindezelwe? I-Karezza ihamba ngesikhathi i-orgasm ozakwethu ukukhulisa umdlalo wangaphambili kanye nobudlelwano uqobo, bandise injabulo nobumnandi, bathuthukise imizwa nomuzwa wobunye.

Kuyinhlanganisela yezinto ezibonakalayo nezingokomoya. Ikuvumela ukuthi ugcine izithandani zombili esigabeni senjabulo eqinile, ngaphandle kwe-orgasm kanye ne-ejaculation, ngisho nehora. Ngenkathi indoda kufanele iphikelele esimweni sokufisa, ngaphandle kwe-orgasm, isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka, umlingani angafinyelela ama-orgasms amaningana phakathi nesenzo.

3. Kuyini i-karezza?

Umqondo we-karezza wukuthi abathandi bangagxili kubo, imizwa yabo kanye ne-orgasm, kodwa komunye nomunye. Lapho wenza uthando, umuntu kufanele alwele ukwandisa ukungezwani kanye nesasasa elinamandla, okungukuthi, esigabeni esibizwa nge-plateau phase. Isilingo sokwanelisa ngokushesha siyalahlwa. Ngokusho kososayensi, ubuvila, ubulili obude bunomphumela onenzuzo ebhalansi ye-hormonal yomzimba. Akukho ukushintshashintsha okukhulu kwe-dopamine, izinga layo elehla kakhulu futhi lijabule ngesikhathi se-orgasm.

I-Karezza iyindlela ezokwaziswa ngokukhethekile ngabesifazane abadinga isikhathi esengeziwe ukuze bafinyelele izinga elilungile neligculisayo lokuvusa inkanuko yobulili.

4. Prakthiza i-karezza

Ozakwethu abahlela ukuzijwayeza i-karezza kufanele bajwayelane nobuciko be-kabbaz (isu lokuthuthukisa i-orgasm yesilisa ngokufinyeza ngesigqi imisipha ye-Kegel ezungeze ipipi) kanye namasu ayinhloko okubambezela i-orgasm.

Umbhangqwana ngamunye kufanele uthuthukise indlela yawo yokwenza i-karezza. Ongcweti nochwepheshe bakha izeluleko ezihlukahlukene ezibalulekile. Ngokuqinisekile kufanelekile ukusetshenziswa. Uzoqala nini? Kusukela ekuziqeqesheni, ukuvivinya umzimba nokuqeqeshwa.

Unesikhathi esingakanani wenza uthando? Nawa amanye amathiphu.

Indoda ingahlala ngaphakathi kowesifazane imizuzu eyi-10. Unyakaza ngokwanele nje ukugcina i-erection. Kufanele afake umlingani kuphela ngemva kokulahlekelwa ingxenye yokumiswa futhi abuyisele ukuma ngokunyakaza okungajulile. Owesifazane kufanele agxile ekuqiniseni imisipha ye-Kegel ezungeze ipipi.

Ngesikhathi socansi, abalingani bazitika ngokungena ngokukhululeka. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukubheka emehlweni, ngisho nokuphefumula, ukugxila komunye nomunye futhi ezintweni ezingokomzwelo kunokuhlangenwe nakho ngokomzimba.

Njengoba i-tantra ihlakulela ubudlelwano ekumeni okuvumela ukuthintana kwamehlo futhi kunciphise ikhono lokwenza ukunyakaza okungazelelwe, indawo efanelekile YaB-ni. Lena inguqulo ye-tantric yokuma kokuhlala. Ikuvumela ukuthi welule isikhathi sokuya ocansini, inikeze ukugqugquzelwa kwe-clitoris ne-G-spot, iqinisa ubudlelwano obuseduze phakathi kwabathandi.

5. I-Karezza - ubulili ngaphandle kokukhipha isidoda nokukhulelwa

I-Carezza, ngezinye izikhathi efakwe ezinhlotsheni ezithile zobulili obuthile, ayikuvimbi ukukhulelwa, njengokuya ocansini kwezikhawu ngokwako. Ukuya ocansini isikhathi eside noma i-orgasm ngaphandle kwe-ejaculation ayikwazi ukubhekwa njengokuvimbela inzalo okungokwemvelo.

Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula ukuthi ngaphambi kokuphuma kwe-ejaculation, inani elincane lesidoda (pre-ejaculate) likhiqizwa, eliqukethe inani elithile lesidoda. Ngaphansi kwezimo ezivumayo, lokhu kwanele ukuba iqanda livundiswe.

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