Ongqingili - bangobani nokuthi umphakathi ubabheka kanjani

Ongqingili besifazane abathandana nobulili obufanayo. Naphezu kokukhula kokubekezelelana kokwahlukana kobulili, inkinga yokucwaswa kwezitabane kanye nongqingili isekhona. Abesifazane ababili abahamba bebambene ngezandla, begona noma beqabulana esidlangalaleni kuseyimpikiswano, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kuyanyanyisa. Obani ama-lesbians futhi yimaphi amaqiniso ngabo?

1. Obani ongqingili

Owesifazane othandana nowesifazane othanda ucansi ngowesifazane okhangwa abanye abantu besifazane. Kungobulili obuhle lapho ecabanga ngekusasa elivamile. Uphatha amadoda njengabangane, hhayi abangase babe ngabangane.

Leli gama livela egameni Isiqhingi saseGreece saseLesboslapho kwakuhlala khona imbongikazi uSappho. Utuswa ngokukhulekelwa nokukhulekela abesifazane. Ngesi-Polish, igama elithi lesbian lamukelwa phakathi kwabesilisa abathandana nabesifazane ngokwabo, ngokungafani nobungqingili obungajwayelekile ngokwezilimi. Ongqingili ungowesifazane onemizwa, othandana naye, noma onentshisekelo yomunye wesifazane.

2. Ongqingili nomphakathi

Kodwa-ke, isimo sengqondo somphakathi wasePoland maqondana namalesbians siqinile. Kokubili ongqingili kanye nongqingili emphakathini babanga izingxabano eziningi, ngoba umphakathi awujwayele ukuthandwa phambi kwabantu ngamadoda amabili noma abesifazane ababili. Kaningi ama-lesbians athathwa njenge abesifazane abalinyazwa amadodaukuthi bazama ukunxephezela ukuntuleka kwemizwa kumuntu wobulili obufanayo.

Abantu futhi bakholelwa ukuthi ongqingili bayesaba ukuba nobudlelwano nowesilisa ukuze angalahlekelwa ukubusa nokuzimela. Abantu abaningi nabo bayakukholelwa lokho ongqingili banezici eziningi zobudoda. Lolu hlobo lokucabanga luwukucabanga okungajwayelekile ngoba isitatimende esinjalo kanye nombono angeke wasetshenziswa kubo bonke abathandana besifazane abathandanayo. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi ungabona ukuthi abanye ongqingili bagqoka, baziphathe noma bagunde izinwele zabo njengamadoda.

3. Ubudlelwano phakathi kowesifazane nowesifazane

Uma ongqingili ababili benquma ukuba ndawonye, ​​bavame ukwabelana ngezindima zabo zomphakathi bengazi. Ngaphezu kokuba abangani nabathandiweyo, omunye wabo uvame ukuthatha indima yendoda ebuhlotsheni. Uba umenzi wezinqumo ovelele futhi aphinde athathe kalula imisebenzi yamadoda, njengokulungisa izinto ezincane zasekhaya. Omunye uzakwethu, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngokuzenzakalelayo uyazithoba futhi ubonakala ethambile.

Yiqiniso, lokhu akwenzeki kubo bonke ubudlelwano bobungqingili. Imvamisa bobabili abalingani banomoya onamandla kakhulu, futhi kwesinye isikhathi bobabili banamahloni impela. Kuyafana ngamadoda angama-gay - omunye wamadoda angase abe nezici zowesifazane, futhi abalingiswa babo bobabili bangase bafane.

4. Amalungelo amalesbian

Bobabili ongqingili nongqingili abasakwazi ukushada ePoland. Nokho, eNtshonalanga Yurophu, umshado wobulili obufanayo ungenwa emazweni amaningi. Lawa mazwe ahlanganisa, isibonelo, iNetherlands, iFrance, iSpain neBelgium. Izitabane nazo azikavunyelwa ukuthi zithathe izingane. Ucwaningo lwemibono luveza ukuthi umphakathi awufuni ukwamukela ukuthi abathandana nobulili obufanayo bangakwazi ukukhulisa izingane. Nokho, ongqingili nabo bayalijabulela leli lungelo eNtshonalanga Yurophu. Amalesbians angathola ingane. E-Poland, nokho, azikho izimpawu zanoma yiziphi izinguquko emthethweni esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uma kuziwa emshadweni wobulili obufanayo kanye nokutholwa kwezingane.

5. Amaqiniso kanye nezinganekwane mayelana namalesbians

Kuze kube muva nje, ubutabane bebufakwe ohlwini lwezifo lapho abantu abazivumela ukuthi bangongqingili baphoqeleke ukuthi bathole ukwelashwa okuyimpoqo. Kodwa-ke, ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, ngenxa yezizathu zezokwelapha, ukuthambekela kobulili kwakungafakwa ohlwini lwezifo. Ngokunjalo, abantu abaningi emphakathini ababheki ongqingili njengabadinga ukwelashwa, kodwa kusabhekwa ukuchezuka ngokocansi.

Kuyinganekwane yobulili obufanayo ukuthi ukukhetha ocansini kuvela ekukhulisweni. Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi intombazane ehlukunyezwa noma ilinyazwe yindoda ekhaya iba ngongqingili lapho isikhulile. Lokhu kuvame ukusolwa kumalesbians. ubufebe cishe ngoba ubungqingili kuthathwa njengokuphambuka kocansi. Kodwa-ke, imibhangqwana eminingi ethanda ubulili obufanayo, kuhlanganise nongqingili, ilwela ukuba nobuhlobo obujabulisayo nendoda eyodwa, njengoba kwenza abathandana nobulili obuhlukile.

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I-athikili ibuyekezwe uchwepheshe:

Katarzyna Bilnik-Baranska, MA

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