Indawo yomgibeli

Kunezikhundla eziningi zocansi zemibhangqwana lapho owesifazane ethanda ukubusa futhi enefantasy eningi embhedeni. Izikhundla ezinjalo zothando, lapho owesifazane engaphezulu, zimvumela ukuba alawule ijubane nezindlela zokulala, kanye nokujula nendlela yokungena, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, imicabango yobulili yabesilisa ivame ukubandakanya lolu hlobo locansi. Isikhundla se-cowgirl saziwa nangokuthi isikhundla se-cowgirl ngoba lezi zinhlobo zezikhundla zothando zivumela owesifazane ukuthi "abophe indoda" ngokuyigibela. Kunezinhlobo eziningana ezahlukene zezikhundla zomgibeli.

1. Izinhlobo zezikhundla zocansi kumgibeli

Ngokuvamile, indawo yamahhashi yilapho owesifazane ehlezi phezu kwendoda. Angakwazi ukugxusha kancane ngesikhathi socansi, anyakazise okhalo emaceleni noma aye phambili naphambili. Njengezimo eziningi zothando, ukuma kwamahhashi kunokuhlukahluka okuningana okungasetshenziswa kuye ngokuthandwa ngabalingani bakho:

• isikhundla phezu komgibeli, lapho owesifazane ehlala kuqala, futhi indoda ilele;

• isikhundla phezu komgibeli, lapho owesifazane ehlezi ngemuva, futhi indoda ilele;
• isikhundla somgibeli wehhashi, lapho owesifazane ehlezi ngaphambili futhi indoda ihlezi noma iphakamisa izindololwane zayo (lesi yisikhundla sothando esihlalweni noma embhedeni);
• isikhundla phezu komgibeli, lapho owesifazane elele ebheke owesilisa.

I-Kama Sutra idonsela ukunaka eqinisweni lokuthi bobabili abalingani bayakujabulela ukuya ocansini. Umbhangqwana ngamunye unezikhundla zabo ozithandayo kanye nezinhlobo zokuphulula. Abadingi noma iyiphi i-Kama Sutra ukuze bajabulele ndawonye. Kodwa-ke, ukuhlola imikhiqizo emisha kungaba yinto entsha kubo ezohlukahluka impilo yocansi futhi yengeza into yesasasa elingeziwe kuyo.

2. Izinzuzo kanye nokubi kwesikhundla somgibeli

Ukuma kwamahhashi, kungakhathalekile ukuthi iluphi uhlobo, kuvame ukuthandwa amadoda njengoba efunda ngokubuka. Phakathi nalolu hlobo lobuhlobo bobulili, bangajabulela umbukwane womzimba wesifazane onyakazayo. Enjalo uthando ukumalapho insikazi iwuhlangothi olubusayo, avumela ukuya ocansini lapho eyeduna ikhathele futhi insikazi inamandla okudlala.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinhlobo zezikhundla zocansi lapho abalingani bebukana zibavumela ukuthi babheke ngamehlo. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu, ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kokuya ocansini, njengoba kukuvumela ukuthi ubheke isimo sobuso bomlingani kanye nokusabela kwakhe ekubambeni.

Isimo socansi kumgibeli enguqulweni lapho owesifazane ebhekene nendoda, nguyena okhululekile kunazo zonke izikhundla ze-"cowboy" zomlingani, njengoba ehlisa amadolo agobile. Lesi simo siphinde sikhulise ukujula kokungena esithweni sangasese. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izikhundla zocansi ezikhethwe abalingani zivumelane nabo bobabili. Indoda ebusayo ingase ibukele phansi izinzuzo zalesi sikhundla - ngokuyinhloko ngenxa yokuthi indima yakhe evelele embhedeni ibonakala isongelwa.

Umkhuba nawo udlala indima ebalulekile lapha. Abalingani abathandana nesikhundla esifanayo iminyaka bangase bangafuni ukwenza into entsha. Isimo siba nzima nakakhulu uma abalingani bengatshelani ngempilo yabo yangasese kanye nezidingo zabo.

Izivivinyo embhedeni akuwona wonke umuntu: owesifazane onamahloni angase angazizwa ekhululekile futhi e-sexy ngokwanele ukuze ajabulele ucansi ngokugcwele. Imizamo yokudabula futhi inqobe izinkimbinkimbi zabo ekamelweni ingaba yimpumelelo noma, ngokuphambene, iguqule injabulo ibe yisimo esinzima sowesifazane. Ubudlelwane obunjalo obungalungile bungabangela ngisho nezinkinga zobulili.

Anna Lesnevskaya

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