Ukufanisa ngokocansi - Ayini amazinga okufanisa ucansi?

Konke ukuqala kobudlelwano kuyinto enkulu engaziwa. ucansi imele umhlangano wabalingani, ngokuvamile abahlukayo ezicini zalolu hlobo lobuntu, isipiliyoni, ukukhuliswa kanye namagugu.

Ukuzuza ukuvumelana ngokobulili kuyinselele enkulu kanye nempumelelo enkulu, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyisisekelo sokuqhubeka nokuhlala ndawonye. Ukulingana ngokocansi kwandisa amathuba ukuthuthukiswa kothando futhi iletha imibala eminingi kokumpunga - ngezinye izikhathi - phakathi neviki. Ayini amazinga okuhambisana nocansi?

1. Ukuthobela Ubulili - Amazinga

Ungakwazi ukusho okuthile amazinga okulingana ngokocansi - ngokomzimba, inkanuko, imizwa, ngamazwi kanye nenani.

1.1. Ukufanisa Ucansi - Izinga Lomzimba

Ikakhulukazi ukuzijwayeza ngokocansi ngokwesimo socansi kanye nomuzwa oqondile wokuthobelana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukukhanga komunye nomunye, ukufisa nokwamukela inyama yakho. Ngesikhathi socansi isimo somzimba futhi kuwukuvumelana kokusabela kocansi kanye ne-orgasm mutual. Eminye imibhangqwana ifinyelela leli zinga lokujwayela ucansi kusukela ekuqaleni, eminye ngokufunda kancane kancane.

1.2. Umdlalo we-Sexy - izinga elivusa inkanuko kanye ne-visceral

Leli zinga lokulingana ngokocansi ikakhulukazi limayelana nokubonana "njengezintandokazi", "ezinhle" izinhlobo zobudoda noma ubufazi. Lokhu uthando mutual ukubukeka, indlela yokuphila, ukunyakaza, kanye nezimfanelo ezingokwengqondo, ukuhleka, njll. Ngokujwayela ubulili kulezi zindawo, uthando olunamandla futhi ngaleyo ndlela ukwaneliseka okuvela ekubeni ndawonye kungavuswa.

Izinga elinembile lokuthobelana ngokocansi kusho ukuzwelana abalingani. Kuyikhono lokulindela izinto ezilindelwe ngomunye umuntu. Lokhu kwenzeka ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amagama. Umzwelo onjalo ujwayelekile kubantu abazwelayo futhi baqondise ukunaka kwabo hhayi kuphela ezidingweni zabo, kodwa futhi nakho komlingani. Ukuqonda kuleli zinga lokuxhumana ngokocansi kudala amathuba okuxhumana okunamandla kakhulu. Lokhu ubambiswano, okungukuthi, ukugxila ebuhleni bomunye umuntu.

1.3. Ukufanisa Ucansi - Izinga Lemizwa

Uma kungenjalo, leli zinga lokujwayela ucansi lingachazwa njengesimo esikahle, isimo sezulu somzwelo, noma isipiliyoni esifanayo. Leli izinga elifanayo lokuqina kanye nemizwa ehlukahlukene etholwayo. Hhayi njalo amazinga okuzwela ngokomzwelo ziyefana.

Isibonelo, kumuntu oyedwa, isipiliyoni se-orgasm sifana nothando lwe-ecstasy noma i-nirvana, komunye kuyisimo sokwaneliseka okusesilinganisweni. Kodwa-ke, ebudlelwaneni obude futhi obuphumelelayo, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abalingani baxhumana nomunye nomunye, futhi imihlaba yabo yemizwa, empeleni, iqondanise, okungukuthi, ukuxhumana ngokocansi kuyathuthuka.

1.4. Ukufanisa Ucansi - Izinga Lokukhuluma Namagugu

Esikweni lethu izinga lokukhuluma lokuvumelana ngokocansi ngebhadi ayikathuthukisiwe. Leli qiniso lithonywa kakhulu ukuntula kwamagama afanele avusa inkanuko. Kungashiwo ukuthi sinamagama ochwepheshe athathwe ngokuqondile ezincwadini eziyizithenjwa noma ezincwadini zesayensi, noma sisebenzisa amagama anenhlamba nasendulo. Ngakho-ke, abantu abaningi bakuthola kunzima ukukhuluma ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kocansi.

Ubunzima kuleli zinga lokujwayela ucansi bungase bubizwe kanjalo ukuxoxa ngesikhathi socansi kanye nezingxoxo ezinemininingwane eminingi ngesihloko sokuxhumana (ngokuphathelene nezikhundla ezifanele embhedeni, amagama asetshenziswayo, njll.), ezingaphuca abalingani bomkhathi wokusondelana, imfihlakalo kanye nezibiliboco. Ukuqhathanisa ngokocansi ngamazwi kuseyinkinga enkulu emibhangqwaneni eminingi.

Ukumatanisa ubulili ezingeni lamanani izinhloso ezifanayo kanye nencazelo yokuya ocansini. Uma bobabili abalingani behlobanisa ubulili nothando, injabulo efanayo kanye nokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu, kungashiwo ukuthi uzobanika inani elifanayo. Ubulili bungahlotshaniswa kuphela nokuzijabulisa, ukwaneliseka kwezidingo zomuntu siqu, noma ukufezekiswa kwezifiso.

Ezingeni elijulile, ukulungisa ubulili kuyindlela yokubonisa, uthando, nobudlelwane. Okujulile izinga lokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi, izinga eliphezulu lokuvumelana ngokobulili phakathi kwezithandani.

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I-athikili ibuyekezwe uchwepheshe:

Anna Belous

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, i-psychotherapist, umqeqeshi womuntu siqu.