Isikripthi Socansi - Izinhlobo, Okuvelayo, Ukuhlukaniswa Kobulili, Ubungqingili

Umbhalo wocansi uyiphethini yokuziphatha eqashelwa umphakathi futhi yadluliselwa ezinganeni iziphathimandla zezenhlalo njengabazali, othisha, isonto, noma abezindaba. Umbhalo wezocansi uhlanganisa izimiso zocansi ezithile, amaphupho, nokuziphatha kocansi. Yini okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nemibhalo yocansi?

1. Yini umbhalo wocansi?

isimo se-sexy (isimo se-sexy) amaphethini okuziphatha amukelwayo esimeni socansi emphakathini. Ngokwale thiyori, awukho umgomo wocansi emhlabeni wonke futhi ukuziphatha kocansi kufanele kuqondwe njengemibhalo efundwa abantu abathile.

Umqondo weskripthi socansi uhlanganisa izindaba ezinjengocansi, ukukhetha ocansini, ukuziphatha kocansi, isifiso, kanye nokuzazisa umongo wocansi. Ithiyori yesimo eyethulwa izazi zezokuhlalisana kwabantu uJohn H. Gagnon kanye noWilliam Simon encwadini ka-1973 enesihloko esithi Ukuziphatha Ngokocansi: Imithombo Yezenhlalakahle Yobulili Bomuntu.

2. Izinhlobo zezimo zocansi

Kunezigaba ezintathu eziyinhloko zeskripthi:

• isimo samasiko yisimo esivezwa iziphathimandla zezenhlalo (abazali, othisha, isonto, isayensi noma abezindaba),
• isimo phakathi kwabantu - lokhu kuwumphumela wokujwayela komuntu ngamunye ezimweni zamasiko ezikhona, lesi simo sithathwa njengomphumela wokuxhumana phakathi kwabalingani bocansi,
• isimo somuntu ngamunye - imithetho elawula ukuziphatha kocansi kwabantu abangabodwana okuvela ngenxa yokucutshungulwa kwezimo zamasiko kanye nolwazi lwabo lwezocansi lwakudala.

3. Ukwakhiwa kwemibhalo yocansi

Imibhalo yocansi ikhula kumuntu eminyakeni engamashumi amabili yokuqala yokuphila, futhi isigaba esibaluleke kakhulu iminyaka yobusha. Ngokushesha ngemva kokuzalwa, ingane ayikwazi noma yimiphi imithetho yobulili, evezwa ngesithakazelo kamuva kulesi sihloko, ikakhulukazi ebusheni.

Abantu abadala sebevele besungule izimpendulo zocansi, kodwa ezinye izakhi zeskripthi zingabonakala kakade ezinganeni ezincane ezingakakwazi ukukhuluma. Izimo zocansi zidalwe ngenxa yezithombe noma izinto ezingabonwa njenge izinkanuko zocansi.

Ingqondo iwagoqa ibe yizo zonke izinhlobo zezindaba noma amaphupho ahlala njengemibhalo impilo yakho yonke. Iskripthi socansi somuntu ngamunye siqukethe izinhlangano nezimpawu ezihluke kancane, njengoba kwakheka ngenxa yokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukene kanye namathonya ahlukene abezindaba, abazali nothisha ebuntwaneni nasebusheni.

4. Ukuhlukaniswa kwezimo zocansi ngomlingani wocansi

Izimo zocansi zihlukaniswe ngongqingili futhi ngokobulili bomlingani. ukuhlukana kobulili obuhlukile. Kuye ngomuntu, izimo zocansi zingabandakanya izihlabani zamamuvi, abaculi, abahlabeleli, abadansi, nabantu abahileleke kwezombusazwe.

Amaphupho ocansi angabandakanya abantu besikhathi esifanayo noma ubuzwe obuhluke ngokuphelele. Abanye abantu baphupha ngomlingani ohlala njalo, abanye bakhetha izinguquko ezivamile empilweni yabo yocansi.

Kukhona futhi abantu abathanda ucansi namalungu omndeni, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi ukuzalana kwezihlobo kuyacwaswa emiphakathini eminingi.

Izimo zocansi kwesinye isikhathi zikhuthaza ukwephulwa kwemithetho noma izivumelwano ngoba zibandakanya izenzo zocansi ngaphandle kwemvume kazakwethu. Izikripthi ezinjalo zibizwa eza.

Ngokuvamile, okuhlangenwe nakho okukhethekile kwasebuntwaneni (okufana nokujeziswa njalo) kukhulela ekuthandeni i-masochism noma i-sadism, izinto ezithile, ukuthinta, izitho zomzimba, ukuphimisa amagama athile, noma ukuba khona kwabantu besithathu.

4.1. ubungqingili njengesimo socansi

Abacwaningi abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ubungqingili buqala eminyakeni engamashumi amabili yokuqala yokuphila. Nokho, kuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi ukukhulisa izingane imibhangqwana e-sexy akuthinti ukucabanga kwabo kokuthambekela kobulili.

Ngemva kokuqaphela izimo zobulili obufanayo, abantu abaningi bafuna ukuzishintsha futhi bazenze ezinye izimpendulo zobulili, njengokuthakasela abobulili obuhlukile. Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka ngemva kokuqaliswa komsebenzi kumaskripthi onawo nokulawula ukuziphatha kwakho siqu.

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