ukuvuselela ibele

Ibele lesifazane liyindawo ye-erogenous yowesifazane. Azinangqondo kakhulu ngakho-ke ziyazwela kakhulu uma uzithinta. Ukuvuswa kwebele okunekhono kungajabulisa owesifazane futhi kuze kuholele owesifazane ekujabuleleni. Inkinga nokho ukuthi iningi labesilisa alikwazi ukuthinta amabele. Wonke umuntu wesifazane uthanda ukuphulula amabele akhe ngendlela yakhe. Kwabanye, ukuphulula ibele kancane kumnandi kakhulu, kwabanye, ukuphululwa kwebele okunamandla kungcono. Ukuzwela kwebele lesifazane nakho kuncike ngosuku lomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini. Kuyasiza ukuthi indoda ibone indlela owesifazane asabela ngayo lapho ephulula amabele akhe.

1. Indlela yokujabulisa owesifazane?

Indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokuvusa owesifazane iwukuba qabula amabele kunokubathinta. Ukudlalisa amabele ngezindebe zomlomo noma ngolimi kuthambile, futhi ngenxa yebhulashi elimanzi, kuqinisekisa ukuzwa okunamandla. Ukuthinta, ukuphulula noma ukuncinza izingono kunika owesifazane injabulo, kodwa le ndlela yokuvuselela kufanele ihambisane nokulindelwe kanye nezifiso zomlingani. Abanye besifazane bathanda imivimbo yezandla ecashile futhi ebushelelezi, abanye bakhetha ukuthamba okuqinile nokunamandla. Ezimweni eziningi, amadoda aphulula amabele awo kakhulu ngenxa yokuqhathanisa nolwazi lwawo. Amabele wesilisa, okuhlanganisa nezingono zesilisa, awazweli kangako, ngakho abesilisa bawaphulula lawo athanda ukuphiwa wona.

2. Ungalithinta kanjani ibele?

Owesifazane kufanele afundise isithandwa sakhe ukuthinta amabele akhe. Umzuzu ngamunye wokuxhumana muhle ekuboniseni umlingani wakho ukuthi yini oyithandayo nokuthi ukwenze kanjani ngendlela efanele. Amadoda adinga isiqondiso, ngakho-ke kungcono ukugijima isandla sakho phezu kwesifuba sakho, ubonise ukunyakaza, ukuqina kwawo, kanye nendlela okufanele bayilandele. Umuntu wesifazane uyakwazi nokuphulula amabele akhe.

Ukushukunyiswa kwamabele ikakhulukazi kuhlanganisa ukuwahlikihla nokuwahlikihla ngesandla sonke, ukuthinta izingono nezindawo eziwazungezile kuphela ngezinqumo zeminwe, ukuncinza kancane, ukushaya ngesigqi kuzo kanye phezulu izingono ngezithupha. Ungakwazi futhi ukunikeza imizwa eyengeziwe ngokucwilisa umunwe wakho noma umlomo ewayinini bese umanzisa izingono zesithandwa sakho ngalo. Ukukhotha okuhambisana nokuhayiza nokufudumala kotshwala kuzobangela ukuthi izingono zibe mnyama ngokushesha futhi zibe lukhuni. Ukufakwa kotshwala obuhlukahlukene bokuvuselela ibele nakho kukhuthaza ukuqabulana kwesikhumba. Ukulandela lesi sibonelo, umuntu angase asikisele ukuthi usebenzise ikhiyubhu likashokoledi ezingonweni noma uzungeza sonke isiyingi sesifuba. Ushokoledi ungashintshwa ngokhilimu ohlutshiwe, ujamu ofudumele, i-ayisikhilimu sauce. Isixazululo sangempela siwubhodisi kashokoledi noma, mhlawumbe, izembozo zengono zikashokoledi kuphela.

Ilungele ozakwethu abangajwayelekile bhebha amabele liyathinta likitaza izingono ngekhanda lomthondo oqhanyelwe. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kuzoba yindlela evusa inkanuko ekwazi ukuletha bobabili abalingani ku-orgasm.

3. Indima yephunga nokubhucungwa ku-foreplay

Ukuphulula amabele kuyidili lazo zonke izinzwa - ukubona, ukuthinta, ukunambitha nokuhogela. Kungumqondo omuhle ukulungisa amabele akho ukuze avuselelwe ucansi lukaphathina wakho kumdlalo wangaphambili ogxile kwabesifazane. U-Marilyn Monroe wayewazi kahle umphumela wephunga elimnandi injabulo yomuntu, ngakho njalo wayetusa ngokuqinile ukuba kugcotshwe amafutha okugcoba namakha anephunga elimnandi esifubeni. Uthe uhlale elala efake kuphela iphunga lamakha ayintandokazi anamanothi e-amber, musk, izimbali ze-jasmine ne-sandalwood. Iphunga liyi-aphrodisiac emnandi, futhi iphunga elimnandi livusa ingqondo nemizwa, lenze igazi lijikeleze ngokushesha emithanjeni. Umthandi, ovuswe iphunga, ngokuqinisekile uzohlanganyela ngentshiseko ekubhubhiseni ibele, okungaba yisandulela se-caress ethuthuke kakhulu.

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Magdalena Bonyuk, Massachusetts

Sexologist, psychologist, osemusha, omdala kanye nomndeni Therapist.