Ubuphekula - yini i-chafing futhi ihlanganisani? Yini okufanele ukwazi?

Ubuphekula wuhlobo lokuchezuka kocansi olubandakanya ukuhlikihla abanye abantu ezindaweni zomphakathi eziminyene ukuze banelise ucansi. Bathathwa njengokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, kanti lesi simo sivame ukuthinta ezokuthutha zomphakathi. Buyini ubuphekula? Ubani owalimala? Yini okufanele ukwazi ngayo?

1. Buyini ubuphekula?

i-frotherism, i-frotherism, ukuxubha (stroking - rubbing) buka i-paraphilia yocansi (ukuphazamiseka kokuthanda ucansi, ngaphambilini obekwaziwa ngokuthi "ukuchezuka ngokocansi", "ukuziphatha okuhlanekezelwe kwezocansi", "ukuziphatha okuhlanekezelwe kwezocansi"). Kukhulunywa ngayo lapho okuthandwayo noma okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuzuza ukwaneliseka nokwaneliseka ngokocansi hlikihla emzimbeni womuntu ongamazi.

Ukuminyana yinto eyenzeka ezindaweni eziminyene njengezithuthi zomphakathi, amakheshi, imicimbi yomphakathi, kolayini ezitolo nasezindaweni ezingaphansi. Lesi sifo sivame ukubonakala kubantu besilisa, ngokuvamile abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-15 nengama-25, abangavikelekile kakhulu, abanesizungu futhi abangenzi lutho empilweni.

2. Kuyini ukubhoboza?

Iziyaluyalu Paraphilic kusho izenzo zocansi ezenzeka ngaphandle kwemvume kaphathina noma ezidala ukuhlupheka. Ukuphambana Kwezocansi zidinga isikhuthazo esithile ukuze bathole ukwaneliseka ngokobulili.

Endabeni yokuba khona kwasemhlabeni, ukungezwani kobulili kufanele kususwe. ukuthinta izitho zangasese zomunye umuntu. Umgomo wokuzijwayeza ukuhlikihla uku ukuthola ukwaneliseka ngokocansi ngokuvuselela izitho zangasese ngokuthintana ngokomzimba nabantu okungahleliwe.

Njengomphumela womsebenzi wabo emadodeni (futhi bakha iningi laleli qembu), ukuqhanyelwa kuvame ukwenzeka. Akuwona wonke ama-grinders ahlala elwela i-orgasm. Kwabanye, ukuthinta abantu nje kwanele. Abanye bazishaya isifuba ngokufihla izitho zabo zangasese ngaphansi kwejazi noma ezinye izingubo.

Nokho, lokhu akufanele kudidaniswe nokubukisa. amaphekula bangase babe ngabathakathi, kodwa ngokuvamile ababonisi ukuthambekela kombukiso. Ubuphekula buphula indawo yomuntu siqu nobuqotho bomzimba, bubangela ukungakhululeki nokuphikiswa.

Nakuba lesi sigameko sihlotshaniswa nezigameko eziphazamisayo kwezokuxhumana okuminyene, siphinde sithathe amafomu anokubukisa kancane futhi anolaka. Kuvele ukuthi izisulu azibuboni njalo ubuphekula. Kungani? Ngokuvamile, ukuhlikihla izifuba, amathanga, noma izinqe zabanye abantu, kanye nokubagona, kuzwakala nje ngokungahleliwe.

3. Izimbangela zobuphekula

Ukubhema akuyona into entsha. Babevele babonwa ngaphambi kwempi yasePoland, futhi, isibonelo, udokotela wengqondo u-Albert Drijski waphenya ngalokhu lapho ehlola ukuziphatha kobulili kwentsha ngo-1934.

Nakuba ochwepheshe behileleke ngokujulile enkingeni yobuphekula, i-genesis yalolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka kokuthanda ubulili akukaziwa. Kuyavunywa ukuthi ukuchezuka kwezocansi, okuhlanganisa nokucasuka, kuwumphumela izinkinga zokukhula kwezocansi. Kunemiqondo eminingana.

Abanye ochwepheshe bayakukholelwa lokho ukuphendukezelwa kwezocansi kuwukugcina (ukulungisa) noma ukubuyisela (ukuhlehla) ezinhlotsheni zobulili zasebuntwaneni. Kwabanye, ubudlelwano umuntu okhathazekile achayeka kubo abusho lutho.

Njengoba kubonakala kulokhu, i-paraphilia ingaba uhlobo lokundiza olusuka ebudlelwaneni obuseduze. Abanye abacwaningi baphawula ukwakheka kwe-paraphilia ohlelweni lokufunda futhi bagcizelela ukuthi ukuziphatha okufundwe ekuqaleni kokuthomba kuyaphikelela ngokwedlulele. Ngakho, ubuphekula bungaba umkhuba ogxilile.

Ukukhukhumeza, njengokufika, kuhlotshaniswa noku:

• ukwesaba abesifazane
• ukungakhuli ngokobulili,
• ukungakhuli ngokomzwelo,
• i-neurosis yokukhathazeka,
• isifo sengqondo,
• ukuphazamiseka kobuntu,
• okunye ukuchezuka (isibonelo, i-fetishism).

Ubuphekula abuvamile. Lolu hlobo lokuchezuka kwezocansi luvame ukubonakala emadolobheni amakhulu lapho ezokuthutha zomphakathi zenza kube lula ukuziphatha okungaziwa ezixukwini.

I-Japan inenkinga ngempela yomphakathi. Lo mkhuba usakazeke kakhulu lapho kangangokuthi kuye kwathuthukiswa imiqondo ehlukahlukene endabeni yokusebenza kwawo. Abesifazane basePoland be-terracotta chiho... Ngakolunye uhlangothi I-Chikan kusho owasemhlabeni.

Izindawo eziyizintandokazi ze-chikan ne-chijo izithuthi zomphakathi eziminyene. Njengoba izisulu zokuhlikihlwa iningi labo kungabesifazane, kuye kwethulwa amakalishi akhethekile emgwaqweni ongaphansi komhlaba waseJapane ngenxa yabo nje.

Kubhekwa ubuphekula ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. Ku-International Classification of Diseases kanye Nezinkinga Zezempilo Ezihlobene, ICD-10, ziqokwe njenge ukuphazamiseka kokuthanda ucansi. Njengomthetho, lokhu akukona ukuphambuka okukhulu.

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