I-vanilla sex - kuyini? Yiziphi izikhundla azikhethayo?

Ubulili be-vanilla wuhlobo lokusondelana lapho ukusondelana nokusondelana kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukude nembuka. Okuyichazayo wukuqwashisa. Leli gama bekufanele lihlanganise ucansi ngaphandle kwezinto ezingavamile kanye namandla ocansi oluyimishini. Iyini i-vanilla sex? Yiziphi izikhundla azikhethayo?

1. Luyini ucansi lwe-vanilla?

ucansi lwe-vanilla ucansi njalo, okuhlanganisa ukuziphatha kocansi okuwela ngaphansi komqondo wokujwayelekile kwesiko elithile noma i-subculture. Lokhu kuphambene nocansi lwemishini. Ngokuvamile lolu ucansi olungenazo izici ze-BDSM, ukuhlanekezela noma ukuthakathwa.

Bdsm isifinyezo esivela emagameni ubugqila nesiyalo (B&D), ukubusa nokuzithoba, I-D&s), ukudabuka kanye ne-masochism (eng. sadism kanye ne-masochism, I-S & M.). Yigama elibhekisela ezinhlobonhlobo zokuziphatha kocansi kanye nobudlelwane obungeyona inkambiso evamile.

I-Fetishism lolu uhlobo lwe-paraphilia yocansi, ehlanganisa ukuthola ukwaneliseka ngokocansi ikakhulukazi noma ngokukhethekile ngenxa yokuxhumana nento ejabulisayo, i.e. isifebe. Kungokwesigaba sokuphazamiseka kokuthanda ucansi.

Ucansi lwe-kinky kusho ukweqa izindlela ezijwayelekile zokukhuluma ngocansi. Kuhlanganisa ucansi olunezesekeli ezihlukahlukene, ukugqoka kanye nokudlala indima ethile, ubulili bocingo, i-BDSM, kanye ne-voyeurism (voyeurism), ukungqubuzana (ubuphekula), ukuboshwa kozakwethu (ukuboshwa) kanye nombukiso.

Singasho ukuthi lokhu yinoma yikuphi ukuziphatha ocansini okungajwayelekile okwedlula uhlelo nezimiso.

2. Luyini ucansi lwe-vanilla?

Umlando wocansi lwe-vanilla waqala e-US ngesikhathi soguquko locansi, okungukuthi, kuma-60s kanye nama-70s. Kwabe sekwakhiwa igama "i-vanilla sex". Kuyafaneleka ukungeza ukuthi i-vanilla, ehlotshaniswa ne-flavour eyaziwa futhi ethandekayo ye-vanilla ice cream, isho into yansuku zonke futhi engavamile.

Esikhathini esidlule, leli gama liye lasetshenziswa, phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukubhekisela kubantu ababengenasithakazelo ku-BDSM. Kodwa-ke, njengoba sekuguqukile, namuhla ubulili be-vanilla bukhululekile, buthenda, bucashile, bungavamile, bunelisayo futhi bujabulisa ngesikhathi esifanayo. Lokhu ucansi olunensayo igxile ekucabangeni, ekuqwashiseni nasekufundeni kancane izindawo ezingajwayelekile zozakwethu.

Umongo wayo ukubonakaliswa kokuzwelaukugubha ukusondelana, ukuzizwa ujabule futhi ujabulela ubungane, kanye nokujabulela ucansi kanye nawe. Kuyazenzekela: akukho ukuhlela, akukho kulungiselelwa futhi akukho ukuthenga, ngaphandle kwalokho izazi zemimoya, i-BDSM noma izithandwa ezihlanekezelwe zingeke zicabange ngisho nokucabanga ngocansi.

3. Lunjani ucansi lwevanila?

Ucansi lwe-vanilla lukhululekile futhi lungokwemvelo. Lona umbono wokusondeza kuzo zonke izinzwa: ukuzwa, ukubona, ukuthinta, ukunambitha nokuhogela. Ihambisana nobude isandulela, hhayi ngokuqabula kuphela, kodwa futhi nokubhucungwa. Ngokuvamile kuhambisana nesimo sengqondo esifanele esidalwa umculo namakhandlela akhanyisiwe. Ayinawo ama-twist noma ama-twist angalindelekile futhi akumele iphele ngovuthondaba.

Inhloso eyinhloko kanye nenjabulo yocansi lwe-vanilla ukusondelana komunye umuntufuthi ungafinyeleli ku-orgasm.

Abantu abanobulili be-vanilla basebenzisa izikhundla ezahlukene ezihlinzeka ngokuthintana kakhulu nemizimba yabathandi babo futhi zivumela ukunyakaza okuhamba kancane. Labo abakuvumela ukuthi uthinte omunye nomunye ubuso noma umlomo wakho bazokwenza.

Yiziphi izikhundla ezikhethwa yi-vanilla sex? Lokhu:

• missionary, noma classic, isikhundla: umlingani ulala phezu kowesifazane, ulele ngomhlane, bobabili babhekene. Umlingani angakwazi ukubeka izinyawo zakhe embhedeni, aziphakamise noma agone umlingani; angafaka imicamelo ngaphansi kwe-pelvis. Izinhlobonhlobo eziningi nokuhlukahluka kwalesi sikhundla kuvumela amazinga ahlukene okujula nokugqugquzelwa kwe-clitoral, kanye nengxenye eguquguqukayo yowesifazane lapho eya ocansini,
• indawo yesipuni, nabalingani balele ngezinhlangothi, owesifazane phambili nendoda ngemuva. Bobabili banemilenze egobile kancane. Umlingani ungena ngemuva. Kulesi simo, uwuhlangothi oluvelele,
• isikhundla esihlalweni: indoda ihlezi esihlalweni, umlingani wayo uhlala emathangeni, efulathela. Iya phansi naphezulu
• i-lotus flower: owesilisa uhlala embhedeni noma kwenye indawo enemilenze ephambene, futhi owesifazane uhlala kuwo. Agaxe imilenze yakhe okhalweni
• ukuma kwehhashi eligadulayo: indoda ihlezi phezu kombhede ihlukanise imilenze, incike kancane ezandleni zayo futhi isekele umzimba wayo. Umlingani uhlezi phezu kwayo, bayahamba ndawonye,
• ukuma "umdlavuza wamanga", i.e. indawo yenja eshintshiwe: umlingani ulala ngesisu imilenze yakhe ihlukene, umlingani ulala phezu kwakhe. Afake isilungu esithweni sangasese.

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