Impilo yabesifazane evusa inkanuko

Abesifazane abaningi bayangabaza ukuthi balungile ngokwanele embhedeni. Ubulili bomlomo buwuvivinyo olukhulu kubo, futhi bahlale benomuzwa wokuthi abalungile ngokwanele. Izimo lapho owesifazane engaphezulu futhi kuphakamisa ukungabaza ngokunemba kokunyakaza.

1. Ukuqhathanisa nabalingani bangaphambili

Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlola okungalungile kungahlotshaniswa nesimo sengqondo somlingani. Kwenzeka ukuthi indoda inolwazi oluthe xaxa futhi ithi yayingcono koxhumana nabo bangaphambilini. Cishe akuzwakali kahle ngomlingani wakho uma ekuqhathanisa nezinye izithandwa. Lokhu kuziphatha kungaholela ekubhrekeni isisho sesifazane kanye nokuzenzakalela.

Akekho ophelele. Phatha ucansi njengento ehlala ikunikeza ithuba lokuthola nokufunda okuthile okusha. Sizuza amandla ocansini ngokuphinda izenzo ezithile ezihlala zilungiswa nguzakwethu. Ekuqaleni kokuya ocansini, abesifazane baphoqeleka ukuba banqobe izithiyo kanye nokuvinjelwa okuye kwavela ngenxa yokukhuliswa kanye nomuzwa wokuhlazeka otholakalayo. Ikhono lokunqoba ubunzima obunjalo lingenzeka ngokusebenzisa ubuhlobo nomlingani onothando ovulekele ukuthola izimfihlo zokuxhumana okuphumelelayo ndawonye.

2. Khuluma ngocansi

Ungesabi ukubuza othandekayo wakho ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-caress aluthanda kakhulu, ngasiphi isivinini athanda ngaso lapho umphulula, futhi yiziphi izingxenye zomzimba wakhe eziyi-erogenous kakhulu. Ikhono lokukhuluma ngezidingo zakho liyisisekelo sokujulisa ukusondelana nokuthuthuka impilo eyimpumelelo evusa inkanuko. Ngaleyo ndlela, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nobabili nizothola ithuba lokuthola ukuthi yini enijabulisa kakhulu futhi yini enijabulisa kakhulu.

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Anna Belous

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, i-psychotherapist, umqeqeshi womuntu siqu.