Uphawu lwentuthwane. Ingabe intuthwane ifanekiselani?

Ubukhulu babo obuncane abuvimbeli ukuba babe namandla amakhulu. Yingakho ukufanekisa intuthwane kukukhumbuza ukuthi izinto ezinkulu zithatha isikhathi, kodwa ngokuzimisela nokuvumelana, ungafinyelela noma yini.

Umlayezo oyinhloko intuthwane ezama ukukudlulisela kuwe amandla okubekezela.

Ezweni lapho ukwanelisa ngokushesha kufunwa njalo, ukukhumbuza ukuthi ukubekezela kuhlale kunomvuzo.

Kungenzeka ukuthi empilweni yakho kunezindawo oshesha kuzo, ubukhona bakhe buyisixwayiso: uma unganakile ungaphuthelwa amathuba aqhamukayo ngoba awukwazi ukulinda.

Uphawu lwezintuthwane lukhuthaza ukuthi uhlale ukholelwa ukuthi uzothola okudingayo, lapho ukudinga. Sonke isikhathi sikhethekile ngoba awusoze wasiphinda. Ngakho-ke asikho isidingo sokuxhamazela futhi uzame ukusheshisa ijubane lezinto, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela uzolahlekelwa izinto eziningi ezifanele.

Idlozi libuye lihlotshaniswe nokusebenza kanzima nokuphikelela ekufinyeleleni imigomo. Uma ukholwa noma ungakholwa, abaningi abenza kahle empilweni abaphumeleli ngoba benesiphiwo noma bevelele, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi abakaze bavume ukuthi banqotshiwe.

Ukusebenzisana ngokubambisana kuhlala kudingekile, futhi ukwenziwa kwemisebenzi ngendlela ehlelekile kuhlale kuletha imiphumela engcono kunezenzo eziyisiphithiphithi noma ezingahlelekile. Ngakho-ke, zama ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ukusebenzisana kwakho nabaphathi noma ozakwenu kuhlala kubheke ngakulo.

Uphawu lwezintuthwane lumelela ukubaluleka komphakathi kanye neqiniso lokusebenza nabanye endaweni yokuzwana ukuze ujabulele ukuphilisana ngokuthula.

Isiyalo, ukuhlela, ukuhleleka, ukusebenzisana, nokuzidela komuntu siqu kuyizimiso intuthwane efuna ukuthi uyisebenzise empilweni yakho.

Kodwa kumelwe ufunde ukuphatha umsebenzi wakho ngokuphumelelayo ukuze ube nesikhathi sokujabulela ukuphila nokuhileleka kwezinye izinto. Nakuba umsebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni, akudingekile ukuba uthathe yonke indawo.

Ingabe ufana nedlozi? Izici ezinhle nezingezinhle zobuntu bakho

Uma uzifanisa nentuthwane, yingoba empeleni ungumuntu othanda ukusebenza kanzima futhi owenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuthi yonke into ihambe ngononina. Wenza imisebenzi yakho ngokucophelela nangenhloso.

Uyaphikelela futhi unethemba futhi awuzisho ngokushesha ukuthi unqotshiwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izithiyo ohlangabezana nazo endleleni yakho.

Kungashiwo ukuthi ungumuntu ozidelayo ngoba uzimisele ukuzidela ukuze uthole okuhle. Uhlala ubeka izithakazelo zabanye ngaphambi kwezakho. Uyabanakekela obathandayo futhi uzame ukubahlinzeka ngendawo ephephile nezinzile lapho bengazizwa bejabule futhi bevikelekile.

Ukubekezela nakho kungenye yezimfanelo zakho, futhi uyakujabulela ukuba nengxenye kumaphrojekthi adinga ukusebenzisana ngoba uthanda umqondo wokusebenzela ukusiza umphakathi.

Ungazibekela imigomo ephezulu ngendlela emangalisayo futhi uyifinyelele ngokuzimisela kwakho nangokuziphatha okuphakeme komsebenzi.

Awuchithi isikhathi esiningi ucabanga, ungabaza, noma umelana nalokho okukukhathazayo. Uncamela ukungashintshi ukuhleleka kwemvelo kwezinto futhi wonge amandla okudala kunokulwa.

Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele uthembele kakhulu kulokho okuzwayo nokucabangayo. Kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukuzibuza imibuzo noma ubekezele ukuze uhlale usendleleni.

Uzofundani entuthwaneni?

Intuthwane ingakufundisa indlela yokuyeka ukuzicabangela, ubonise ukuthobeka, futhi ukhuthaze ukulingana.

Ngamunye wethu unendima okufanele ayidlale kuleli zwe, futhi ngezinye izikhathi singathanda ukuthi ibaluleke ngaphezu kwalokho okusifanelayo. Ukubekezela kanye nomsebenzi womphakathi nakho kungamagugu abalulekile azoshiya umkhondo ezimpilweni zabanye.