Uphawu lwenkawu. Imelelani iMonkey?

Inkawu yisilwane esigcwele ilukuluku namandla, okufanekisela ngakho kungaba usizo olukhulu kuwe.

Ukufanekiswa kwenkawu kudonsela ukunaka kwakho ebuhlotsheni bakho nenhlalakahle yakho uma ungazinaki lezi zici ukuze ugxile kuphela kuzinjongo zakho.

Lesi silwane sikutshela ukuthi ungaboni impumelelo hhayi njengokugcina, kodwa njengohambo. Kunendlela eyodwa yokwenza lolu hambo nezinye hhayi.

Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi inkawu isidalwa esidlalayo nesinenkinga. Lokhu kufanele kukukhuthaze ukuthi wenze indawo yobumnandi nokuhleka empilweni yakho.

Ukuhlekisa kwenkawu nomoya wobusha kuzokuvumela ukuba usondele futhi ufunde kunoma yisiphi isimo ngamehlo akho evulekile, okudingekayo ukuze indlela yakho eya empumelelweni ibe efanele.

Lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke ube nobunzima, kepha, noma kunjalo, ungakhohlwa ukuhleka, ukuzijabulisa nokujabulela impilo.

Ukuhlala unelukuluku futhi ungayeki ukufunda kuzokugcina umatasa, ukhiqize futhi kubuyise umoya omncane nenjabulo, kepha kuvuse nengane engaphakathi kuwe. Uma ukwazi ukusebenza nokutadisha unombono omuhle kanjalo, ucabanga ukuthi uzobhekana nomsebenzi okuwukuphela kwawo ongenakwenzeka?

Lapho inkawu ingena empilweni yakho, ikuthumela isignali ecace bha: manje isikhathi sokuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa nalabo obathandayo futhi ubakhombise ukuthi babalulekile kuwe.

Othandweni, uphawu lwenkawu lukuxwayisa ukuthi ungakhohliswa ngabantu ongabazi nhlobo. Ngokuvamile, uma othile ebonakala emuhle kakhulu ukuthi angaba yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi bakukhombisa uhlangothi lwabo kuphela.

Ukwazi abanye ngaphambi kokuba ubangenise enhliziyweni yakho kuzokusindisa ekukhungathekeni okuningi. Thatha isikhathi sakho ungazithobi.

Ngabe ukhomba inkawu? Izici ezinhle nezimbi zobuntu bakho

Uma ukhomba inkawu, kungenxa yokuthi ungumuntu othanda ukuzijabulisa. Cishe njalo uyindlovukazi noma inkosi yeqembu ngenxa yamandla amahle owakhipha abanye abawatholayo lapho ufika.

Noma imuphi umsebenzi wobuciko noma wobuciko udonsa ukunaka kwakho ngoba umcabango nobuciko kuyizici ezimbili ezikubonisa ngokusobala.

Yonke into iphanga ilukuluku lakho, ngakho-ke uhlala ufuna izimpendulo futhi ufunda okusha.

Unothando futhi unomusa, futhi kubonakala sengathi akukho okukuphazamisayo. Kepha futhi unasohlangothini oluhlubukayo.

Yize abantu bekuthanda ukuthi ungubani, kwesinye isikhathi uya kude kakhulu ebuphukuphuku bakho nasekwenzeni kwakho ubuwula. Ukuthola kunzima ukudweba umugqa phakathi kokuhleka nokuzimisela, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ungacasula abanye ngokuhlekisa ngento ebaluleke kakhulu kubo.

Abanye baze bakusole ngokungavuthwa nangehlaya ukugwema izihloko ezibalulekile.

Lesi sitatimende siyiqiniso eliyingxenye ngoba empeleni uyakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga, kepha uma ungakakulungeli ukubhekana nenkinga ethile, uvame ukuyiphepha ngokuphazamisa ukunaka kwakho.

Yini ozoyifunda kunkawu?

Lesi silwane esincelisayo esinamandla singafundiswa ukusondela empilweni sinesimo sokudlala. Gxila emandleni akho emizamweni ezokusondeza eduze nezinhloso zakho ngenkathi kukhulisa ilukuluku lakho, elizokwenza izinto zithokozise. Ngoba le ndlela izokuholela, ngokungacaci kuwe, ekukhuleni kwakho komuntu siqu, okungokomzwelo, kobuhlakani kanye nokomoya.

Ungaqonda ukuthi kunesikhala empilweni sokungaphezu nje kokuphumelela nokufeza. Kufanele kube nendawo yokuzijabulisa nokudlala, ukuhlola nokutholwa.

Njengoba inkawu igxuma isuka esihlahleni iye esihlahleni, ungahlali endaweni eyodwa isikhathi eside. Phuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka bese uthola ukuthi umhlaba uzokunikeza ini.

Ekugcineni, funda ukuzijabulisa ngenkathi usebenzela izinhloso zakho, ngoba ngaleyo ndlela, lapho ufika phezulu, uhambo lukufanele.