Uphuphe imimoya? Lokhu kokubili kuyibika elibi nelihle. Bheka ukuthi kuyini!

Ephusheni uke wahogela isiqholo osithandayo? Noma mhlawumbe labo oze ubazonde? Kuye komongo, incazelo yephupho mayelana namakha ingase ihluke ngempela. Ukuze ufunde okwengeziwe!

Umlando weziqholo, ngokuphambene nokubukeka kwawo, awuwona owesimanje. Bavela, njengoba kuvame ukukholelwa, eGibhithe lasendulo. Okhokho basendulo babesebenzisa amakha ahlukahlukene ukuze baphawule imithandazo futhi bagubhe imicimbi yenkolo, njengokuthungela amafutha abalulekile emvelo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, amakha aqala ukwandisa umsebenzi wawo kusukela kokungcwele kuya kwehlanzekile. KwakuseGibhithe lasendulo lapho ukuhweba ngezinongo, ama-aromas, njll. izinhlaka. Le mikhiqizo yayixhunywe, okokuqala, ngephunga elimnandi. Imfashini yeziqholo igcinwe iminyaka eminingi futhi manje ibhekene nokuvuselelwa kwayo kwangempela futhi. Njengoba wazi, iphunga lihlotshaniswa nabantu abathile, siphinde siveze imizwa ethile kubo. Kodwa kusho ukuthini lokhu? Uthini ngaye?

kuye ngephunga elikhona, libhekisela kumuntu othile, indawo, into, noma umcimbi. Kufana nokuvuma ngekhanda kulokho obucabanga ngakho kamuva nje. Ngenxa yamandla okuziphendukela kwemvelo nangenxa yama-receptors akhethekile, izinto eziphilayo ezingabantu ziye zafunda ukuhlukanisa iphunga nokuwahlobanisa nezinto ezithile. Kunjalo nasemaphusheni. Kutolikwa kanjani-ke?

Uma i-leitmotif yephupho lakho kuyisimo othenga kuso, lokhu kukukhuthaza ukuthi usebenzise ingqondo nokuhlola okujulile kwesimo esithile. Mhlawumbe uyabethemba abantu abangalungile, futhi lokhu kudala umbono ongamanga. kodwa lingasho futhi isenzakalo esithile esijabulisayo sangaphandle, injabulo yesikhashana.

Njengoba ephakamisa, ephusheni ngesimo libonisa kokubili injabulo kanye nobungozi. Le ncazelo iba yiqiniso ikakhulukazi lapho onikelayo kungowesilisa. Iphupho elinjalo lingabonisa nobuhlobo obuvamile bothando noma uthando olumnandi. Okubaluleke kakhulu isithombe somuntu onikeza amakha ephusheni, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, isimo sethu sengqondo kuye.

Uma unolwazi mayelana nokuthululwa kwawo - ngengozi noma ngamabomu - lokhu akulona ibika elingcono kakhulu. Lokhu kuphakamisa umthombo othile wenkinga noma ukulahlekelwa okuthile okuthandayo, njengamathoyizi.

Uma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uhogela amakha, lokhu kungaba uphawu oluhlukile kuye ngephunga. Njengoba esikisela, lokhu ngokuvamile kusho ukubalekela kwelinye izwe, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, ukucwiliswa eqinisweni lomuntu siqu. Ukubamba, nokho, kusemininingwane, ngoba yonke into incike ekushubeni kwephunga lamakha athile kanye nezintandokazi zakho. Uma iphunga lalikhangayo, ungalindela izindaba ezinhle kumuntu noma umhlangano nabathandekayo. Uma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphunga lingajabulisi (noma mhlawumbe liphelile), lesi yisixwayiso esisikisela kakhulu. 

Nakuba namuhla amakha amaningi achazwa njengamafutha okuthiwa ama-unisex, alungele ubulili bobubili, kusenokwehlukana phakathi kwamakha amadoda nabesifazane. Ngokuqondene nephunga, lokhu kuvame ukufundwa njengophawu oluhle. Ngaphezu kokuthi wenza samuntu amandla wesilisa, futhi ubonisa ukuthi ummeleli ohlakaniphile nonothando walolu bulili ukhona empilweni yomphuphi.

Ngokulandelayo, uhlelo lunophawu oluthe xaxa. Okokuqala nje, incazelo engeyinhle yaleli phunga iza obala. Njengoba izincwadi zephupho zibonisa, okokuqala, lesi yiseluleko sokunakekela impilo yakho yengqondo nengokwenyama. Ungase uhlangabezane nezimo ezihlukahlukene ezingemnandi.

Nakuba umongo uhlala udlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu emaphusheni ahlaziywayo, ephusheni elivusa amadlingozi, ubuhlobo bethu nabantu abahlukene, izinto zezenzakalo, noma, ekugcineni, ukuhogela kuza phambili. Noma kunjalo, kufanelekile ukuhlola incazelo evamile yophawu oluthile encwadini yephupho.