Uphuphe ubeletha? Thola incazelo edumile yaleli phupho!

Iphupho lokubeletha liyisihloko sephupho esithandwayo esivame ukwenzeka kubantu abahlela ukuba nezingane. Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho, ukuzalwa okubonwa ephusheni kufanele kuhunyushwe kuye ngokuthi umongo.

Iphupho mayelana nokubeletha, njengephupho mayelana nokukhulelwa, ngokuvamile livela kubantu abaphupha ingane. Ngokuvamile isifiso somntwana empilweni yangempela sinamandla kangangokuthi sifakwe emaphusheni. Kusho ukuthini ukuphupha ngokubeletha? I bheke!

Ukubeletha okubonwa ephusheni kungaba nezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene. Nokho, akufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi lihunyushwe njengoba linjalo. Ukuphupha ubeletha akusho ukuthi ulindele umntwana. Lolu phawu luhumusha ngokujule kakhulu kunalokho okungase kubonakale lapho uqala nje. Ukuze uthole incazelo yangempela yaleli phupho, kubalulekile ukucabangela imininingwane eminingana evele kuyo. Kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukuthi ubani ophupha ukubeletha, ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo okwenzekayo, kodwa futhi noma ngabe kwakuwukubeletha kwethu noma sabona ukuzalwa komunye umuntu. Uma sihlanganisa zonke lezi zakhi, kuzoba lula ngathi ukuzihlanganisa zibe ingqikithi eyodwa enengqondo.

Kubantu abafuna ingane, leli phupho, njengephupho ngengane, lingafanekisela imizwa engenalutho kanye nemizwelo ehambisana nabazali abalindele ngokulangazela okujabulisayo. . Mhlawumbe sifuna ukugqashula endleleni yokuphila yamanje, siyekele imikhuba emibi, noma simane siqale isigaba esisha ekuphileni. Kulo mongo, iphupho lingase lisho ukuzalwa "komuntu wethu omusha." Leli phupho lingaphinda lifanekisele imibono yokudala ezalwa ekhanda lethu futhi esingathanda ukuyiletha ekuphileni esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ngokukhuthala nokungaguquguquki, imiphumela izofika ngokushesha kunalokho esikulindele.

Ekuchazeni iphupho mayelana nokubeletha, ubulili bomntwana ozelwe nabo bubalulekile. . Ngenhlanhla kuwe, lokhu kuzoba ukubuya okujabulisayo esikhathini esedlule, futhi izinkumbulo zakho eziningi zizoba zinhle kakhulu. Uma ubona kuzalwa umfana, kungase kusho ukuthi kufanele ube nomthwalo wemfanelo. Ngokuvamile leli phupho, njengephupho ngemali, libuye libe yi-harbinger yenhlanhla emkhakheni wezinto ezibonakalayo, kanye ne-harbinger yezinsuku ezijabulisayo.

Esimweni lapho umphuphi engakabi nomyeni nezingane, kodwa ephupha ngokubeletha, lokhu kungase kube isibonakaliso sokuthi ngezenzo zakhe uzolahlekelwa idumela lakhe elihle. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi aphenduke inhlebo futhi akhulume nabantu abangamthandi. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuqapha abantu esibathandayo futhi ugweme ukukhuluma nabanye ngezihloko zomuntu siqu, ezingase ziboniswe kamuva ngendlela embi kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi kubuye kube wuphawu lokuthi umshado wakho uqhelelene nalokhu owawukuphupha.

Bathi ukuzalwa kwamawele kuyinjabulo ephindiwe kubazali. Kodwa lisho ukuthini iphupho elinjalo? Isithombe esinjalo ephusheni kufanele sibe iseluleko kithi ukuthi singathembi wonke umuntu esihlangana naye futhi sihlale kude nabantu esibajwayele, ngoba bangasenza umonakalo omkhulu kunokuhle. Uma usanda kuba nezinkinga zempilo, . Esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, uzozizwa uthuthuka esimweni sakho somzimba nengqondo.

Uma ephusheni ungowesifazane obelethayo, lokhu kungase kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela awunankinga yokwenza izinqumo, nakuba uvame ukukwenza ngokushesha nangokungacabangi, ngokuvamile ziyashaqisa ngawe. Leli phupho liphinde libe uphawu lwezenzo ofuna ngempela ukuzenza esikhathini esizayo esiseduze futhi akekho futhi akukho lutho olungakuvimbela ukuba uzithathe.

Uma ephusheni ungufakazi kuphela wokubeletha, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi indima, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle kakhulu kuwe. . Ekugcineni, uzozizwa ukwaneliseka kanye nokubonga.

Ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kwesikhathi ephusheni kungase kusho ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze uzobhekana nezinkinga eziningi ezintsha zomuntu siqu noma zobuchwepheshe ongeke ukwazi ukubhekana nazo ngokugcwele. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzodinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokuthola yonke into futhi uvumele izindaba eziyinkimbinkimbi zithathe inkambo yazo.