Ingabe iphupho mayelana nombulali lihlala lisho into embi? Zibheke!

I-hangman ephusheni yisithombe esifuna ukusisusa ngokushesha enkumbulweni. Kusho ukuthini ukulengiswa, esihlahleni, ekhaya noma ehlathini? I bheke!

Kunamaphupho engingathanda ukuwakhohlwa ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, futhi iphupho lapho indoda elengayo ikubonisa emehlweni ngokungangabazeki ibhekisela kubo. Uyazibuza ukuthi lokhu kungasho ukuthini. Bona ukuthi lolu chungechunge luhumusha kanjani!

Iphupho mayelana nendoda elengayo ngokuvamile kubangela ukwesaba nokwesaba. Umbulali ephusheni ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi lapho sivuka, sinemibono embi kakhulu phambi kwamehlo ethu futhi sesaba izimpilo zabathandekayo bethu. Kodwa ingabe iphupho lapho indoda elengayo ivela njalo lisho okubi kakhulu? Ngokusho kwezinye izincwadi zephupho. Kunezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene lapho uphawu lwaleli phupho luncike, ikakhulukazi, kumongo lapho umbulali avela khona, ukuthi ungubani, njll. Ngokucabangela zonke lezi zakhi, kuyoba lula ukufunda incazelo yaleli phupho futhi uthole ukuxhumana okuthile phakathi kwakhe nempilo yakho.

Uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi ungumbulali, lesi sithombe singahunyushwa njengomzamo wokuvala umbono owodwa empilweni yakho futhi uqale isigaba esisha. Njengephupho lomngcwabo, leli phupho lingase lisho ukuthi ufuna ukuhlukana nesikhathi sakho esidlule futhi uvulele ukushintsha. Ngokusho kwezinye izincwadi zephupho kufanele ubhekane nazo. Ezinye izincazelo zibuye zibonise ukuthi isithombe esinjalo sephupho singabonakala futhi uma empeleni ungajabuli, uzizwa ungenandaba, uthobekile, noma ungaboni indlela yokuphuma esimweni esinzima kuwe. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokunakekela isimo sakho sengqondo futhi uqhubeke nokuphumula isikhathi eside, okuzokusiza ukuba ululame futhi uthole ugqozi lokwenza okuthile.

Iphupho lomuntu linomfanekiso obanzi kakhulu. Futhi indlela yokuhumusha iphupho lapho indoda elengayo ibonakala kuwe? Incazelo yephupho ibonisa ukuthi isithombe esinjalo sephupho, njengephupho lokukhaphela, singase sivele kwabesifazane abalahlwe umlingani futhi abangasakwazi ukubhekana nokuhlukana. Ngakho-ke, leli phupho lingasho imizwelo nemizwa engacutshungulwanga enqwabelana ngendlela yezithombe zephupho. Kungase kudingeke ubonise ukuzimisela ukuze ukholise abanye ngemibono yakho.

Umbono ephusheni labathandekayo akumangazi muntu. Kodwa indlela yokuhumusha iphupho lapho amehlo ethu ebona umngane olenga? Kuvela ukuthi iphupho elinjalo alisho ngempela into embi. Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho, isithombe esinjalo ephusheni singavela lapho udinga ukusekelwa nosizo lomuntu othandekayo. Cishe uye waba nezikhathi ezimbi ekuphileni kwakho futhi ungathanda ukuba nomuntu ongaxoxa naye ngezinkathazo zakho nokwesaba kwakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupho lapho kubonakala sengathi ubungane obudala phakathi kwakho buzophela.

Iphupho lapho kuvele khona indoda elenga esihlahleni ingelinye lamaphupho asenza siqhaqhazele. Ngokuvamile sifuna ukusula ngokushesha iphupho elibi elinjalo enkumbulweni yethu. Incwadi yephupho isichaza kanjani lesi sihloko? Lokho kubukeka kungaba yinkomba yokunaka kakhulu indawo okuzungezile, esho. Kungenzeka ukuthi othile ngemuva kwakho wenza konke ukukulimaza. Zama ukucophelela kakhulu ekuxoxisaneni nabanye futhi ushiye ulwazi oluthile ukuze ukhulume nawe kuphela.

Iphupho lapho indlu ibonakala khona ngokuvamile ihlotshaniswa nendawo yokukhosela kanye nomuzwa wokulondeka. Yini okufanele uyenze uma umbulali ebonakala ephusheni endlini? Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyinkomba yezinkinga zesikhashana empilweni yomndeni. Kuzodingeka ulungiselele izinsuku ezimatasa ezigcwele imisebenzi eminingi yasendlini engakwenza uzizwe ungaphathekile kahle.

Ihlathi liyitimu yephupho ethandwayo, iphupho ngehlathi lihlala ligcina imfihlo, noma lifihla imfihlo kuwe.

Iphupho mayelana nendoda elengayo ngokuvamile kubangela ukwesaba nokwesaba. Umbulali ephusheni ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi lapho sivuka, sinemibono embi kakhulu phambi kwamehlo ethu futhi sesaba izimpilo zabathandekayo bethu. Kodwa ingabe iphupho lapho indoda elengayo ivela njalo lisho okubi kakhulu? Ngokusho kwezinye izincwadi zephupho. Kunezincazelo eziningi ezahlukene lapho uphawu lwaleli phupho luncike, ikakhulukazi, kumongo lapho umbulali avela khona, ukuthi ungubani, njll. Ngokucabangela zonke lezi zakhi, kuyoba lula ukufunda incazelo yaleli phupho futhi uthole ukuxhumana okuthile phakathi kwakhe nempilo yakho.

Uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi ungumbulali, lesi sithombe singahunyushwa njengomzamo wokuvala umbono owodwa empilweni yakho futhi uqale isigaba esisha. Njengephupho lomngcwabo, leli phupho lingase lisho ukuthi ufuna ukuhlukana nesikhathi sakho esidlule futhi uvulele ukushintsha. Ngokusho kwezinye izincwadi zephupho kufanele ubhekane nazo. Ezinye izincazelo zibuye zibonise ukuthi isithombe esinjalo sephupho singabonakala futhi uma empeleni ungajabuli, uzizwa ungenandaba, uthobekile, noma ungaboni indlela yokuphuma esimweni esinzima kuwe. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokunakekela isimo sakho sengqondo futhi uqhubeke nokuphumula isikhathi eside, okuzokusiza ukuba ululame futhi uthole ugqozi lokwenza okuthile.

Iphupho lomuntu linomfanekiso obanzi kakhulu. Futhi indlela yokuhumusha iphupho lapho indoda elengayo ibonakala kuwe? Incazelo yephupho ibonisa ukuthi isithombe esinjalo sephupho, njengephupho lokukhaphela, singase sivele kwabesifazane abalahlwe umlingani futhi abangasakwazi ukubhekana nokuhlukana. Ngakho-ke, leli phupho lingasho imizwelo nemizwa engacutshungulwanga enqwabelana ngendlela yezithombe zephupho. Kungase kudingeke ubonise ukuzimisela ukuze ukholise abanye ngemibono yakho.

Umbono ephusheni labathandekayo akumangazi muntu. Kodwa indlela yokuhumusha iphupho lapho amehlo ethu ebona umngane olenga? Kuvela ukuthi iphupho elinjalo alisho ngempela into embi. Ngokusho kwencwadi yephupho, isithombe esinjalo ephusheni singavela lapho udinga ukusekelwa nosizo lomuntu othandekayo. Cishe uye waba nezikhathi ezimbi ekuphileni kwakho futhi ungathanda ukuba nomuntu ongaxoxa naye ngezinkathazo zakho nokwesaba kwakho. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupho lapho kubonakala sengathi ubungane obudala phakathi kwakho buzophela.

Iphupho lapho kuvele khona indoda elenga esihlahleni ingelinye lamaphupho asenza siqhaqhazele. Ngokuvamile sifuna ukusula ngokushesha iphupho elibi elinjalo enkumbulweni yethu. Incwadi yephupho isichaza kanjani lesi sihloko? Lokho kubukeka kungaba yinkomba yokunaka kakhulu indawo okuzungezile, esho. Kungenzeka ukuthi othile ngemuva kwakho wenza konke ukukulimaza. Zama ukucophelela kakhulu ekuxoxisaneni nabanye futhi ushiye ulwazi oluthile ukuze ukhulume nawe kuphela.

Iphupho lapho indlu ibonakala khona ngokuvamile ihlotshaniswa nendawo yokukhosela kanye nomuzwa wokulondeka. Yini okufanele uyenze uma umbulali ebonakala ephusheni endlini? Lokhu mhlawumbe kuyinkomba yezinkinga zesikhashana empilweni yomndeni. Kuzodingeka ulungiselele izinsuku ezimatasa ezigcwele imisebenzi eminingi yasendlini engakwenza uzizwe ungaphathekile kahle.

Ihlathi liyitimu yephupho ethandwayo, iphupho ngehlathi lihlala ligcina imfihlo, noma lifihla imfihlo kuwe.